Hi Susan! I am totally GALing tomorrow! My son and I are headed for Staten Island to visit my sister and I decided to make it an adventure. Car, train, subway, ferry, and taxi. My little guy will have a blast. I totally need this weekend after the past week.
How are you doing? Have the ADs helped yet? Just treat tomorrow as a regular day. That's what I'm trying to do. It was very hard not to get my H anything for the day though.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
I think the ADs are kicking in, I feel a lot more positive generally, still have down moments but both a friend and H have commented I seem really happy.
I have plans this evening with a friend but I'm struggling with what to do all day. Might see if my friend can meet me a bit earlier.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
I know what you mean - it was hard for me too not to get him anything. I suggested an activity this weekend and he asked me when and it was really hard not to suggest today and to just tell him it was up to him when.
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
My son and I are headed for Staten Island to visit my sister and I decided to make it an adventure. Car, train, subway, ferry, and taxi. My little guy will have a blast. I totally need this weekend after the past week.
Its going to be a COLD day on the ferry stay warm! Looks like we might get some snow too!
Fun trip so far, but now I'm laying at my sister's house missing my H. I probably just need some sleep. What did you end up doing with your day? Did your H suggest anything to do this weekend? This was my first family trip without mine. Just feels odd, not right. I wanted to text him before going to bed, but I stopped myself.
My son had an awesome trip, Cadet. And it wasn't too cold when we came in. Going out tomorrow might be colder though.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
Had a rather quiet day - H left early to go help a friend who was hosting dinner... I went to a coffee shop and read most of the afternoon, then went to a gig with a friend.
Today H and I are going to a maze in a local park.
It's good you stopped yourself texting H, it's hard though I know. Hope you had an ok day otherwise. ((()))
Me 28 / H 28 M 1 / T 2.5 BOMB 12-3-14 "I don't feel like myself any more" Still living together, separate rooms.
Just living in limbo. H is distant and my family is up. Makes me remember how it's been. Trying to be strong, but late at night, it's very lonely. I was diagnosed with shingles this past week which is probably adding to it. Cadet, I know I can post on here, but I don't want to whine, which is what I'm doing now. Only showing a PA to my H though during the day.
M 46 / H 43 T 24/M 18 S 4 11/6/2014 ILYBNILWY 1/16/2015 Living in separate bedroom 1/8/2016 H moved out
