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Rysin,

Every once in a while, USE that 5-6 p.m. timeframe to your advantage. Don't make it obvious. Don't do it too regularly. But use that time wisely.


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And fwiw, if W is just throwing things in the washing machine, I don't see a problem with you running a cycle once it's full. You can fold her stuff and place it in its own basket or something. I like how you handled the bigger issue with the scooter. Well done.


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I definitely plan to use that time to help me. Gonna dress up really nice in the coming days with everything cleaned and me smelling amazing. Yeah buddy it's going down.


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I definitely plan to use that time to help me. Gonna dress up really nice in the coming days with everything cleaned and me smelling amazing. Yeah buddy it's going down.


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Attaboy.

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thanks it will be easier now that i have a buddy coming in for a month. and he is one of her best friends so i know she is going to wanna see him. he thinks he is going to set her straight and i just laughed i said dude, your not going to bring her back. she is going to have to find her own way back or she is not going to find it at all. but he thinks he can. i said give it a shot but know i want no part of this and i brought you out here to get away from you problem. so we shall see how crazy this month gets.


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Wow ok guys this is what i just recieved from W upon sending that email about scooter

W- OK, I made an apt to take it right after work and leave you the car. What is
your schedule like today?

Also, it would be nice to have an honest and realistic discussion about what
we are going to do with our situation. Those discussions tend to get heated,
so I'm not sure how you want to do it. I am open to suggestions.

i replied with- are you talking about lloyd. (which is her friend)

response

W- I am referring to us. But there are also a few things to discuss about LJ visiting.

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What do you need to discuss?


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Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

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Where is train when i need her for a Womans perspective


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Does anyone have a copy of my "4 Types of Conversations" list? I'm not in front of my computer at the moment, so I don't have access to my archives.

NOTHING good can come from a convo while she's still wayward.

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