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[edz]

Think we picked this up on my thread Gg but what Jim and G said, if Im reading it all right you're looking for company, a chat and coffee right now. Anything else is further down the road and not something to worry about yet. Nervousness is fine its a new situation but dont worry and if you dont like an idea, dont do it

[jim0987]

How old are RHC's kids?

and i'm very different around my kids than when i'm not in part because they have so much of my attention.

But in terms of the whole scenario there is a good chance he is also trying to protect them and keep his own situation relatively smooth. If and when i do start dating its going to be a while before i say or do anything in front of my kids because i wouldnt want them being confused

Right now i'm anxious as to when OM1 (or another OM) will be introduced to my kids. I think that may well be my 'and now i'm done' moment, but who knows - we'll cross that when we get there

[Ggrass]

The older ones are high school. Younger one I'm guessing is ten. Primary age.

Not small. Teens and pre teen. Yes I'm different round my kid, but I would still engage. I was serving them at the shop. Friendly chatty is normal.

The whole thing might be too hard, we shall see. I'm not knee jerking him.

Every r has dramas and different problems. H was definitely his child. H has a codependent r with said youth. It ain't healthy for either of them.

I'm also not playing the victim game again either. Rhc does sing from that hym sheet, but he didn't see d coming. Xw ran him over $ wise and emotionally.

It depends if they stay stuck there. He's looking better than he did, shows he's healing. Although he ain't sleeping, I can see it. Made a coment today, he acknowledged he's not.

Who knows tomorrow is another day!

[edz]

Codependency with child is something I know all too well Gg its not a fun situation to be the other partner in that relationship.

Indeed it is another day and a Saturday at that.

[Ggrass]

Compare rhc to the tesicles bloke.

He has no nuts, but they seem to be re growing.
He was joking with and In front of his d. His x is seriously bi polar has done some right crazee things. Light Friendly and flirty almost.

His x, locally is known as one scarey lady. He saved her from killing herself, while she was seeing om.

Yet, in spite of that fact he was still friendly.

See the difference.
Rhc even stood meters back from the counter. Hardly spoke and bolted quickly.

Oh I've been shamelessly working on both. For more time on rhc.

[Ggrass]

Interesting day for a weekend Friday,

Cute dude came in but late, and I didn't fell like inviting.

Shop was quiet and it was a bit awkward, but my instict says he keen. he takes notice of what you say.

When it was mentioned today was Friday, he made a thing of saying oh well I will see you Tuesday.

So guys is that a good sign?

Diets been crapola this week, due to a couple of work lunches, but I came home and chopped up a bunch of veg, made a roue? (Sp?) White sauce with cheese, bacon and garlic. To do better this week.

Might make a sweet and sour chicken stir fry too. I failed to plan well, with the cooler weather salad didn't cut it. I've cleaned out the fridge and made room for the fruit. It's loaded with fresh veg and fruit.

The dogs have now been Nic named knickers, as that's what's been happeing to my fruit. They have nicked it all.

The highlight of today, a customer told me how she loved having my quirky bouncy happy almost scarastic humor. said I always make her day.

I know guys I ramble all over the joint, but it's interesting to see dynamics between people, especially now. Just observing the different blokes and the way they respond is intriguing. Often the female customers too, it's interesting.

[Ggrass]

So 7'serves of veggie bake. Must go, and do sweet and sour stir fry.

Hope fully 4 of those that's 11 meals for a 4 day work week. Means if it stays cooler I can have hot lunches too. But of house cleaning bit of paper work to be copied for l and some stuff to put onto paper.

Dinner out tonight, grey old day. Ponders what to wear, mmmmm perhaps jeans and a heart shaped neck line top. I'm thinking red shoe day.

Bigger town tomorrow and '50s dress and red heels. Bit of shopping for spark plug and blades for the new second hand mower. Perhaps fairy god mother and I will go out to tea as well, snitty night at the local club.

Today's other project will be back to filling the bin as tomorrow is bin day. Yard clean up with dog distructions will fit this bill.

[edz]

Evening gg

Sounds an interesting old day. Could be a good sign on dude, see where it goes Tuesday go for the coffee line ...

Lol at the dogs.

Hope dinner was good, oh its the dress and heels again, too late to be getting in a cold shower here you know!



Go get em gg

[Ggrass]

Dress tomorrow edzs, might go the jeans today, bit cool. Thick jumper on, need to get motivated to start all this stuff!

Gosh getting started is hard at times. Spend all week rushing about just want to cruise at weekends.

[Ggrass]

Well things changed pretty fast yesterday dinner was called of my friend was ill and not up to going out. I had another aquaintence show up while the farm tennat did his sheep.

Also tenants gossipy mate turned up, lol so meh!

Went out with fairy god mother and a couple of her mates, had a huge tea. Bloated wow, need to be good for the rest of the week.

Oh went op shopping with work bestie, well bought a huge bag of stuff. Couple of pairs of work pants, few dollars each. Nice shirt new, nice jacket new, nice dress.

Saw Serveral pairs of smart pin striped mans pants for edzs, $2.50 nice striped shirts too all quality. The kicked us out as it was closing time. Lol we spent up big so they were hapoy to let us browse longer.