Look at the upside tho, drugs to remove pain. Gotta be a plus when your whole head hurts.
Looks like vanilla is finding another single dentist! Lol I soooo glad they found what caused the whole drama without loosing teeth and have gangrene set in.
M 46 h54 Both married before T 11y Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads! Ms 18 hs 26
I just read in another thread that you are in your third marriage with your current H. This made me curious about your first and second Hs. What happened to them?
H1 died aged 31 ( I was 33) married at 19. Love match.
H2 divorced M age 36 divorced age 56 (sep when I was 54) no passion from H since I was 48. Amicable divorce H had 'mixed' interests he wanted to explore but never did. Also business partner until he retired 2 years ago age 65. Friendship.
H3 M aged 59. Supposed to be a love match!
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/1408:35 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Forgot to say H2 is now in another part of the world entirely now he is retired. So I don't hear from him or see him any more. I understand he is very unwell but he hasn't responded to emails. H2 is very dear to me as he helped me rebuild my life. H2 was a true gentleman.
I had a miscarriage and still birth with H1. We fostered H2 never wanted children
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/1408:51 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
Look at the upside tho, drugs to remove pain. Gotta be a plus when your whole head hurts.
Looks like vanilla is finding another single dentist! Lol I soooo glad they found what caused the whole drama without loosing teeth and have gangrene set in.
Precisely, gangrene doesn't suit me. I prefer blue!
Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/1408:49 AM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
You continue to inspire me with your PMA and GAL. Thanks for being such a positive example! I look to your posts to be uplifted.
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
H: Are you going to E tonight? Me: sorry I don't know where that is, or why I should be going there. H: there is a dance on. I received a notification. Me: baffled no, I am going to GAManon (in open office) H: I would like a word with you please Me: Ok Short while later H: I have decided I am not going up to see your family this Xmas Me: OK H: I have to let S and SOH know if you are going Xmas day. I donot want to see your parents now I do not believe it's going to be appropriate Me: can we discuss this another time please. It isn't what I want in the office. H: Well you have only until tomorrow morning to decide. I want to see my family this Christmas. I will not be going to yours at all this Christmas, so make your mind up. Me: I will think about it and consider my position and advise in due course. I did agree last year to take turns, and it is your choice this year. H: Well I do not ever want to go to see your family, so it is up to you what you do Me:we can discuss this another time.
H: I am going to my BIL tonight it's his birthday. So it's not tonight then! You will have to tell me in the morning. Me: Do you have a card for BIL? H: I don't need one as I will be buying him drinks which he will prefer
Then he bounced out again
So fellow DBers more rubbish headed my way, I suspect.
Any suggestions?
I would really prefer not to do either at Xmas, I have an open invite to bffs.
I feel physically sick at this point although of course I knew it was headed my way.
Regards Vanilla
Last edited by Vanilla; 12/16/1405:09 PM.
Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose. V 64, WAW
