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Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2517062
12/13/14 11:36 PM
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A machine that means i can turn back time but keep what i've learnt, definitely want that for my Marriage but also think I should memorise a boat load of lottery results.


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: jim0987] #2517065
12/14/14 12:33 AM
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Ahahahahah! ROFLMAO! You got it, Jim! wink


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2517089
12/14/14 02:32 AM
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There's a meteor shower tonight. I went out and stood in the cold and wished upon some stars. I prayed, too.

For those of you in warmer climates, you might want to check it out. smile


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: jim0987] #2517097
12/14/14 03:09 AM
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Taps finger impatiently waiting for jim to share lots of lotto results!

Boy could I do with some. I have found it far more reliable to work for what you want rather than buy a ticket. grin wink that gives guaranteed results.


M 46 h54
Both married before
T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Ggrass] #2517126
12/14/14 09:26 AM
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The lottery does give guaranteed results. Spend a couple if quid, have a few days imagining what it would be like to win. Don't win. Realise youre a couple of quid worse off.

Its a money back guarantee to boot


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: jim0987] #2517176
12/14/14 04:59 PM
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Having thoughts today that are stinkin thinkin. WABF must be super happy and why would he ever want to reconcile? Probably doesn't. Ever.

I need to not worry about it either way. Not focus on him.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2517212
12/14/14 07:01 PM
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Hey little. I know that thought very well - a lot of my thinking to be honest.

But you nailed it. Its stinkin' thinkin' and not worth the energy

If you have to give your WABF any thought make it about all of your awesome that he's missing out on. I pity the fool (said in my best Mr T.)


Both mid 30s, 2 young kids
BD 7sep14
XW moved on long ago, now living with OM1
D paperwork in progress
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: jim0987] #2517285
12/15/14 12:23 AM
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You are doing really well.

What are your plans for fun this holiday season?

A single GAL girl with a lottery ticket! Winning combination. cool

Vanilla


Freedom is just another word for nothing left to loose.
V 64, WAW


Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Vanilla] #2517334
12/15/14 04:57 AM
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I'm 90% certain this move is going to happen. I don't call anything certain 100% until money changes hands and a lease is signed -- next weekend if all goes as planned. I'm both excited and nervous; it's basically a small studio apartment with a tiny bedroom. Enough for one, but tight.

It's good though, because things around here are tense. Familiarity breeds contempt and my family has a talent for blowing up over stupid chit; something as simple as a screen door not catching and blowing in the wind had my grandmother swearing at me like a sailor. Mom says I should "avoid her". Because I guess it's high school in my house. My eyes are rolling.

Managed to get through today by binge watching episodes of TV shows on Netflix all day and snuggling with the kitties. No tears all weekend.

It's a start.


ME: 38
BF: 40
T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice)
BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R.
10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW
12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Re: Little but FIERCE (Little's Thread #4) [Re: Little] #2517337
12/15/14 05:09 AM
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Little,


Got any netflix recommendations? I'm re watching stuff I've already seen, partially for background noise, partially for distraction. However, I'm ready for something to focus on.

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And if WABF is happy, that's his life. Right now the focus is on you. New apartment, new opportunities and a new year that's just around the corner, once we get through the holidays.


M:32,H 32
T:10, M5
BD/H Move Out: 9/2014 - extreme anger
H Mental Illness Diagnosis: 4/15
Served D Papers: 10/15
Divorced: 11/15
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