Plain vanilla #2

[Ggrass]

Well the once when he was drunk went something like he walked a few km right up the center of the highway on the middle line. On a very cold and frosty night, I think the the ride home in the night way patrol car might have had more effect than anything. They did only drop him at the edge of the dirt road so a few km walk in.

The time he went right off at me absuing me for some thing he did, I got up and left while he was in the shower at his mates. I drove past him later on about half way home, I refused to stop.

When he got home his question was why didn't you stop?

Gg well I thought you would have been really pi$$ed off so I saved your breathe for the important task of walking another 8km home. You feel much calmer now right?

I guess your right and yeah Im too tired from walking to be angry.

[edz]

Hi Vanilla

sorry to hear things are difficult at the moment. W is also still picking at our joint account which I cant move at present for many reasons I'm still working on so I feel the stress on that one!

Know you'll be kareokeing (is that a word) and boogying but is there any way you can get away for a weekend to decompress and relax not to be pushed out just to regroup?

Edz

[Vanilla]

Edz,

It's a great suggestion to get away, Paris was a great help to Jim I recall; regrettably unworkable as I have too many work commitments and this tooth thing is getting in the way. I may need dental care at short notice, which means not straying too far. I note that auto text changed away to wayward probably because I use the latter more in my writing, but that isn't what I mean. I have absolutely no intention of being wayward!

As soon as I can I will do so and it could even be a mid week break taking laptop and printer with me. Sadly it's my busy season.

But I will add this to my plan thank you.

The finance thing is tough but I am resolved to open a 7 day savings account linked to the current account and transfer excess cash to it. I believe there can be a tie to notify both parties by text if there is a notice of withdrawal. I am not sure what further hurdles that I can create at this stage. If I find any I will let you know.
Regards

Vanilla

[Vanilla]

Like everyone else here my thread is getting close to closing.

I love the cool thing where the link says thread1, rather than "http:///////string/123456 vanilla" quote. HP does that in his threads. I reallywant to know how to do this cool thing. Any one got the trick? I tried using quote to cut and paste but ended up with gobbledygook instead which I had to notify to have removed.

Vanilla

[edz]

Hi Vanilla

Standing orders dont create that message - at least not that Im aware of. Be careful they can be cancelled quickly by anyone with ebanking access though and check before you take my word for anything as I hid from the bank account for many years

No mini break hotels just up the road you can drive to and enjoy a spa or similar then? I know there are 3 near me so may be worth checking unless you are concerned about needing to be driven of course which (after my dental treatment knocked me recurringly for six for 4 months) I know all about to well!

Take it easy mate, you're doing brilliantly and helping a lot of us too!

Edz

[edz]

With the link when you click the link box (world with the 8 on its side) I think it asks two questions, one is the link address the other is the title you'd like I believe.

e.g.

My Linky Title

[Vanilla]

With the link when you click the link box (world with the 8 on its side) I think it asks two questions, one is the link address the other is the title you'd like I believe.

e.g.

My Linky Title

Thanks, once I get this, the worlds my oyster.

[Vanilla]

I am sure this is other than a standing order but by bank auto transfer to the deposit account, there can be a floor setting, so a warning if the level falls below say 500. We do this with trust accounts all the time.

Then in the deposit account you can set a text verification as the cash takes 7 days to transfer, then notification gives warning. It's a barrier.

I have all my accounts sending me a text balance daily. It's a service that is already in my charges so I use it. Text arrives mid morning so I can action.

Hope that helps
Vanilla

[edz]

You are a lot more organised than me on this Vanilla so I certainly bow to your knowledge on it

I may look into the messaging you mention though as at the moment I find out she's been in the account when I run through the statement at the weekend and have to have a strong coffee when the balance is adrift!

[Vanilla]

Ships that pass in the night.

I am going out as H is coming in. The tumble drier is repaired and H can safely wash his bed sheets before they walk there themselves.

He has not said one word about me disappearing overnight. He went to golf this morning and was happy. He is looking very old and his beard is patchy, I thinktherewas a hangover. I haven't told him I am GAL tonight. Gf H is cooking cauliflower cheese with bacon which is one of my fav counts 3 pts Edz.

Vanilla