OK - I have moved my situation to the Newbies section. Thanks for the advice
I forced myself to go to a Christmas party last night and just mingled. It felt very weird and I was out of place - at least it felt that way to me. I stayed for about an hour and then left.
I am trying hard to GAL outside of my wife and family.
My wife set up a family calendar - I was adding items to it and i saw he AP had posted a meet up with my wife on it. Of course my wife accepted it. GD. I emailed my wife to only use our family calendar for our personal family business. I am furious about this latest breach of trust.
