Mozza, thanks for sharing! I love the advice on HP's thread. He has so much excitement and drama it is almost more enthralling than a movie. I feel for him.
Wet noodles no more!!! Although I think in the case of us too nice women, we need to embrace our bitch side.
Mozza... shut down the hugs and kiss kiss. Maybe say "Really?" You know that's the right thing to do. She has to know you are not her friend. Frustrate her. Women can thrive on drama... positive or negative. It is a part of attraction. You know that.
LIsaB... Thank you for the kind sentiment. I have noticed how my thread is like a tragic hard drama everyday. I can't imaging what's coming in just 30 minutes. Get ready, though, for my threads to be full of happy GAL and quiet living next week from the condo.
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Me: 44 W: 45 S: 11 Married: 15 Together: 18 BD: 9/29/2014 OM discovered: 10/16/2014 I left her behind: 12/14/2014
Agreed: HPoirot is stealing the show these days. I love especially the play-by-plays with his W.
HPoirot: Yes, the tough love approach is working well for you, but your W is so engaged, I don't know how it works with a W that has moved out and is about to move in with her OM! Is she really afraid of losing me me?!
12 pages? Time for a new thread. See you all over there.
HP you are doing so well and are an inspiration to lots of us here. Keep it up! And I do look forward to your exciting and enthralling tales of GAL soon!
Thank you jim0987 and LisaB! Much to say but I'm at work with a client. Also, I think Wonka just replied to this on HPoirot's thread.
Originally Posted By: Wonka
HP,
I am firmly on Sandi's side on this one:
Originally Posted By: Sandi2
Well, I may get switches in my Christmas stockings for saying this, but I would just have to say, "Sorry, too little too late". Then walk away. That is a truth dart that really needs to penetrate.
You see, this is just a taste she will need to experience. She has to see for herself that you are through with her. You have decided you won't take whatever crumbs she decides to leave for you. She needs to see what it must have been like for you. (Only she can't really feel the same as you did.) That is why it is important that you don't cave while she's applying this pressure.
That ^^ is the crux of the whole matter: not accepting crumbs from WAW. I hope every LBH reads this and lets that sink in in their wet noodle minds. HP, no it will signal the death knell of the M. Instead, it will signal the death knell of the Wet Noodle HP and show your W that you mean business when it comes to your boundaries.
This ^^ answers your earlier questions on what you are doing wrong. Exactly.
Can you do this with your W? Pull back and stop acting like a slobbering puppy around her.
