Therapy is not like a marriage. You do not "work things out" with your therapist.
If you and your therapist are not able to communicate in a way that makes YOU feel heard, validated and safe then you must another therapist. This is crucial to your therapy.
Your counselor will understand. This is one of the things your counselor is trained in.
My wife just sent me an email about Detente Mediation.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
Hope, I left it alone. Is it so random if this the direction she's moving?
Correct, Zew.
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
We did some interesting stuff on the drama triangle at the infidelity group I go to. I'm busy working today, but I'll look out my notes and post some stuff on it.
Jefe, good advice from others about not reacting to the mediation thing from your W. Good for you not to get blown all around by it - that one could have started another big text exchange or worse. Your W is blowing here, there and everywhere. But it can be your choice not to chase around in mayhem with her...
Have a good day! Toots
T 13 M 7 Me 48 H 46 SS 15 BD 7.14 PA D final 5.16 (H filed)
We receive & we lose, and must try to achieve gratitude & embrace with whole hearts whatever of life that remains after the losses - Dubus
Me 47 - W 35 M 9 - T 10 2 Daughters - 7 & 9 Discovery of EA- 8/4/14 S - 8/5/15 D mentioned - 9/11/14 R & Piecing - 3/17/15 Regard one another as more important than yourselves. - Philippians 2:3
