I will unfurl a bit for dinner have a shower cook a meal and raise a glass to w. Friends were mostly made through w which has left me lost
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
There's a lot of stuff you can do out and about without money. Get creative.
ME: 38 BF: 40 T: 10y, no kids, no M (by choice) BD: 7/14/14, BF admits to PA, wants out, lies about new R. 10/1/14: I move out, BF lies about move in with OW 12/4/14: OW confronted, reveals all the lies
Edz, I find things like housework and gardening help me when I start thinking about things to much . Mind you if I carry on won't have much garden left lol.
Like jim said raise a glass to yourself . You've come this far .
Don't give up on yourself mate .
My trial at the moment is I keep doing washing and the putting it out to discover it's gonna rain . Glad I bought a tumble dryer.
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Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
Thanks guys. There's lots I could do but I'm stuck in the mental rut of doing it "without her".
I'm normally house proud but since I'm ripping it apart no point. Too early to get going on the new place too.
Just having trouble getting the shape of my future alone right now. Can't count on w returning can't start the journey toward acceptance and dating as she hasn't said she's definitely over and limbo is an anathema to my solution personality.
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M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
Dinner is on, I'll either have a movie night and relax my normal junk food munching rules for the evening or may see if I can get any further in Borderlands (unlikely)
What do you guys do about feeling lonely, Im ok when I have my S around but thats a rarity although it should be less so when Im at the new place
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
I read a book or do some gardening ,walk the dogs. Wash the car , go to the ark for a tea, play battlefield 4 on my ps4, go to my mums and dads for a tea and chat , play candy crush, do some housework,watch a comedy ,
What is a good book that I'm reading at the moment is total recall Arnold swarzeneggars life story .
I do feel lonely when the kids are at school or college but quickly find something to do so it doesn't overwhelm me .
Last edited by South74; 11/04/1406:53 PM.
Me 40 W 37 Together 22 years S18 D12 WaW 12/08/14 after affair exposed , suspected for several months W returned home for 2 weeks to see if can handle family life After the 2 weeks she has left .
That cant be easy Jim. Just the loneliness at the moment but who knows what comes next.
M:44, W:46, S:10 M 13 years, T 15 BD:23/7/2014 W/S Moved to MIL: 23/7/2014 My new place: 21/11/2014 W/S back to flat 22/11/2014 W coming closer, talking 4/2015 Piecing 5/2015 Moving in again 6/2015
