Maybell XVII

[Maybell]

Well, I was just on FB and he has friended her and she openly liked his introvert thing. I guess I've lost.

I guess my PMA wasn't real. I'm falling to bits and he'll be home with the kids in an hour. I prayed for a sign. I guess that was it.

[raliced]

Maybell, I'm sorry - I may have missed some nuance in your social media situation. You knew they were in contact before because of the Instagram account, correct? Has anything changed - or is it the fact that he openly friended her?

[Maybell]

Openly.

[raliced]

Mmphpmphh....

I'm sorry Maybell - I'm not sure if he's being clueless or just disrespectful. Everyone on these boards joined with the intention of saving their marriages - but so often you read a story and think - geesh what it is about this guy that makes such an awesome lady put up with so much?

And this is one of those moments.

BTW- I don't think your PMA wasn't real. A gutpunch is a gutpunch is a gutpunch.

[Wonka]

Maybell,

You've got to stop that stinkin' thinkin'!!! Seriously. When it seems that all odds are stacked against you, then wham! Things change with a roll of the dice. Trust the DB process. Don't let the OW use your head space rent-free, honey.

D-O-N'-T....!!!

[Maybell]

Thanks, raliced.

I don't know why I would be willing to put up with this mess. I guess I'm hoping it will be like T0324 that being in the open will bring it too a head and a resolution sooner.

I have three amazing children whose world has been rocked. And will be rocked further by this unless it resolves. They deserve our best efforts. Eighteen years deserves our best efforts.

sigh. Wish me strength for when he brings the kids back in 45 minutes or so.

[Maybell]

Wonka, I don't think it's the OW. It's that he openly friended her on FB knowing I'm there. He still lists me as his wife, for God's sake!!

Am I really stinkin' thinkin? Do they really change that quickly? It's hard to believe. Even having seen how things worked for Train and T and their sitches were way worse than mine.

I guess it can. I hope it does. I am tired of being blindsided like this.

[Wonka]

Well, I was just on FB and he has friended her and she openly liked his introvert thing. I guess I've lost.

If this isn't stinkin' thinkin', then what is it, Maybell??

[Maybell]

I know.

Stockdale.

I know it's not an attitude I should focus on, but just for the sake of venting, can I say that I HATE her and I hope karma gets her???

I'd use stronger language but I'd like to at least keep an eye on the high road.

[Old Dog]

Maybell. What are you doing worrying about fb etc?

I unfriended WAW so I can't see what she posts. She can see mine but I don't want to see hers. It was really hard, by I did it.

Mind you, it doesn't help that my mum and brother told me, but that's another matter :-)