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New thread...old one locked

http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2483643&page=1

Wow, already a part 6. Is there no end to this!?! smile


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
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Pilot, it's hard to keep up with ya. New thread again. I have been out of town last few days and need to start a new thread as well. Just can't do it from mobile. It sounds like you have had a good few days. Keep up the PMA it's good to be happy. I will keep my fingers crossed for you, hopefully it will be a non event. I will catch up tomorrow on my thread when I can get it started. Great job buddy! Soccer season will be great for you and boys.


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Pilot, it's hard to keep up with ya. New thread again. I have been out of town last few days and need to start a new thread as well. Just can't do it from mobile. It sounds like you have had a good few days. Keep up the PMA it's good to be happy. I will keep my fingers crossed for you, hopefully it will be a non event. I will catch up tomorrow on my thread when I can get it started. Great job buddy! Soccer season will be great for you and boys.


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I facetime'd with my kiddos earlier today. This time, my W did turn the camera on to herself. she started doing this in the past, but had quit as of recently. Typically follows the roller coaster cycle as to if she turns the camera on herself. So we talked briefly and I did tell her she looked really pretty today. She thanked me. I really do have some good opportunities ahead of me to make a good impression, especially with the coaching the boys' soccer teams. Now all i need is some really hot single moms with kids on my team to come flirt while I am coaching.

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Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
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so she turned the camera on herself... that's a positive for today.

I don't think you necessarily need moms to flat out flirt with you. Most dad coaches don't know this but there's always talk of the coach and his hotness level among the moms. If you're wife is anywhere near the other moms during that convo, you're good. You may not get direct flirting (I'm assuming these women have some class and tact) but your wife will notice if someone's eyes are lingering.

Don't be afraid to be a little silly. You're bound to win a few hearts that way and the kids will have even MORE fun!


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Originally Posted By: Ss06
so she turned the camera on herself... that's a positive for today.


yea, I guess so smile
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I don't think you necessarily need moms to flat out flirt with you. Most dad coaches don't know this but there's always talk of the coach and his hotness level among the moms. If you're wife is anywhere near the other moms during that convo, you're good. You may not get direct flirting (I'm assuming these women have some class and tact) but your wife will notice if someone's eyes are lingering.


hah, good thing I am not wearing my ring. How funny would that be if she heard other moms talking.

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Don't be afraid to be a little silly. You're bound to win a few hearts that way and the kids will have even MORE fun!


that is my personality anyways. I really have an easy time making people like me. plus I really like kids and I am good with them.

thanks ss smile


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Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
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Pilot, there is no doubt the mommy's will be talking about you. They will see you connect with there kids in a positive light. It's all good, Mrs Pilot will pick up on it to. My thread is locked till I can update tomorrow. Haven't had anymore talk yet about my pending summons response. I dropped off to my L tommorow. It sucked but no sense in worrying about it now. W stopped in my room to talk about my cousin's funeral. Small talk but freindly. I spoke to my DB coach Denise today, great lady by the way. She thinks it's time to LRT. She feels wife has been testing to make sure I am still on the rope. But with her serving I need to take a different approach. Let w figure everything out for herself in regards to her getting a job then serving uannounced and expecting me to take care of kids until june. Now talking about maybe getting apt.and holding ooff on D. I am going to roll with Denise on this. One way or another it's best for me. There are a few hottie at my Bank I do my bizz. At noticed I am not wearing my ring. Alot of smiles and flirting eventing throwing a few suckers my way. Anyway one last thing on wife. Tonight when I got home kids had a little art project for school they needed a family picture. Momma had to feel a little something there.


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I hear ya igit. My S5 has been doing a lot of art work lately showing all 4 of us (myself, W, S5, S3) all holding hands. It is like a default drawing he does.

Is it possible for you to take a trip somewhere? Maybe a week vacation. That will definitely make LRT easy if you just picked up and left for a bit. Leave your W with all the responsibilities she will have as a single mom. Hell, come to the beach here and you and I can have bushwhackers and talk WAW. Then enjoy the hottie tourists!! smile

Looking forward to catching up on your new thread when you get it up. In the mean time, if you need something urgent, feel free to post here!


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Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
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Pilot I wish I could go somewhere for a week. Rt now I am committed to taking kids to school in the morning. I like the idea I might need to figure out a way for a sub with kids in morning.


M 54
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Ilybnilwy 1/26/14
A discovered 2/3/14
D filed 7/25/14
Sumons served 8/14/14

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one thing I made sure of is that since my W and I are alternating weeks, I let her handle ALL of the kids stuff during her week. Right now it is easy for her because she does not have a job. Pretty soon she will have to get one. Then she will find out just how hard it is, as well as how she no longer has time to do all the fun stuff she is used to doing.

Let reality be a lesson...


Me: 42
W: 32
Married 7 years together 8.5
S1: 7 S2:7
Bomb #1: 09-16-13
Recon #1: 11/13
A discovered 04-03-2014
W filed D 05-19-14 but never served me
I filed D 12-02-2014
S 05-31-14
Divorced 5-19-16
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