This morning she was talking to me about all these complex issues at work...I am sure I am the only one in this Love triangle she can even talk to about this...
Okay. I'll play here.
What happens when you remove a right angle from the triangle? It collapses..right?
Your choice.
Excellent!
Thanks
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
I have the book boundaries on my IPad I should finally read it.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
Me 47/W 34 T 16 M 13 No kids BD 6/2013 W asked that I move out 6/2013 I moved back and W is upset with this 12/2013 separate beds not much talking Served D Complaint 5/2014 W moved out 9/27/2014
Actually if I was the Gay roommate she would not hide herself from me.
That's why I say I am more like the brother!
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
This morning she was talking to me about all these complex issues at work...I am sure I am the only one in this Love triangle she can even talk to about this...
Okay. I'll play here.
What happens when you remove a right angle from the triangle? It collapses..right?
Your choice.
Well now the big experiment! We are going to move son 21 home from Vermont this weekend...it will be me S16 and WW sharing a room.
She said she's going to sleep with s16. She's not and has not shared a bed with any man.
The MC says the OM has her so convinced that it is me she can't trust!
I have ro just keep my boundaries up this weekend. Even the promise that I will not engage in conversations about her "dates"
You know, all you do in your posts is complain about your W and the OM. Then you go to other people's threads and complain to them about your W and the OM.
I understand you need to vent, but even your C said you need to stop fixating on the A. How about starting to post about what is going on that's POSITIVE in your life right now and post HAPPY things.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.
You know, all you do in your posts is complain about your W and the OM. Then you go to other people's threads and complain to them about your W and the OM.
I understand you need to vent, but even your C said you need to stop fixating on the A. How about starting to post about what is going on that's POSITIVE in your life right now and post HAPPY things.
Ok so your right! It's enough venting in my part .
Actually my son and his fiancée are moving to our house for their jobs in NYC. We will have a full house and I think nothing but good could come of it.
We always wanted a daughter and mybsins fiancée is very sweet and helpful.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
wife...I am your husband and I find it very disrespectful to try and talk to me about your dates.
this ^^^^^^ is not passive aggressive
if you can't be whole on your own, why would your wife want to be with you???
oh...and by the way....you don't need to explain the above comment to her or have a discussion with her about it or anything else...
just the statement in a calm voice and then done
Well put. I have memorized this sentence and will use it.
W 53 H 51, S 16, S 21 33 years M 28 DD 3 Feb 11, 2014 S21 and His Fiancée move in with us 8/14 http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubb...965#Post2477965
Ok I followed the advice in what to say when "dates" are brought up. So now we saw a commercial for a restaurant and her comment was oh that place is great I ate there last week we should go together.
In these case I just don't say anything...I don't see anything wrong with going to a restaurant she enjoys.
Things are well this morning... It's kind I like a 1950's sitcom. We are in a hotel in separate beds.
She never changes etc in front of me, but she has no problem if I am in boxers and a shirt. She likes when I don't have a shirt on and commented on it last night.
It's like we are married in every way except for physical contact.
I have heard if WW's that don't want to be anywhere near their BS. In my case I am just trying to figure out what to do next.
We talks about things to do together all the way to next summer.
We have intimate conversations about the children etc. It's all good stuff...
The but is that I just can't break the hold of the OM.
