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T minus 2 hours until H. leaves. Just trying to hold it together well enough to put my best foot forward.


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Stay strong girl!! My WAW just moved into her new home. Our old house is empty. As if our life together means nothing. But you will get through this and who knows what the next phase may bring!!! My thoughts are with you.


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ILYBNILWY, 'I don't want to be a boring housewife, 'I don't fancy you any more'
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Thank you all for the support. I am looking forward and remembering this is just a new phase. It just feels like a huge, huge loss right now.


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Good luck Meghan!
Be happy your H is packing up, mine moved out and left all his stuff behind, even his dirty clothes on the floor by the bed!?!
I feel for you, come here and complain after he goes. We're here for you.
Big hugs,
Lisa


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OW1: EA then PA after BD
Now he's dating multiple OWs
I'm over it and moving on.
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Can't stop shaking, but haven't quite started crying yet although the tears are right there.

Hold it together, hold it together, hold it together...


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I'm so sorry Meghan. Hang in there. We're here for u.


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Meghan, so sorry this is happening. Wishing you a wonderful distraction today!



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Meghan -

Sending hugs your way. Hoping for some glimmer of light for you today. It's there somewhere!!!

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I'm so sorry, Meghan.

You will get through this. It may not be pretty but you'll get through it. ((( )))


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Let me give up the need to know why things happen as they do.
I will never know and constant wondering is constant suffering.
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He's gone. He was putting on his shoes, and said, "I don't know if I'm supposed to say anything". I asked if there was anything that he wanted to say. he just said "I'm sorry" and I said the same, followed by "I hope you find happiness." He said, "I hope you do too." And then he had to leave.

I locked the door behind him. I didn't cry until after he left, but I haven't stopped since.


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