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#2473991 07/30/14 07:55 AM
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May the fleas of a thousand camels infect your neither regions and your arms be to short to scratch. (Arabic curse) grin

This sort of quirky quote just makes me laugh, one of my h complaints was my humor, I was too frivolous then when I tried to tone it down, to scarsatic, then it turned to I'm too mean nasty and other spew.

My humor is making a return, but today's been a downer for me. Bit unwell tired run down not on top of my game. The whole mediation thing is moving which was my biggest frustration.

One of the questions I have struggled with is what do I want to do?
Is h a quality person?
I got confronted today by one of h friends (30years)I work for him, h always ran this man down as dishonest, fibber who can't get his chit together.

He referred to the demise of the m, and said well someone has never learnt his lesson has he, referring to the ow and past affairs. I was shocked this is the third person who would have no reason to lie, yet they seem to feel I already knew that h was in the past prone to a!

I have doubts, I just doubt everything. Not sure if its low mood, being unwell or just plain not detached enough.

I'm feeling like I can't even trust reality, am I truly mentally ill like h was spewing?
Guess I'm spinning over me, why did I trust and give support so easily when it wasn't earnt?

Why didn't I see sooner the actions?
Was I too naive blindly following his lead and plans?
Is h just plain crazy?

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T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
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Lovin' the Arabic saying GG. You have to let the humour in - your own humour as well, not some watered down 'safe' humour. That's who you are.

I'm also having 'a bit of a moment' this morning. Had to go and shut myself in the bathroom with a thick towel.

Must start my PMA chant now.

Old Dog xx


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T: 21, M: 8
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EA Aug 2014 I think
PA Feb 2015 possibly sooner
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So you know what, I don't care. What anyone thinks, atm, but I'm getting so much positive feed back I'm thinking I'm on the right path.

What do you call a basement full of blondes? grin

Answer later!
I do have some mates and we trade joke of the day, which is much nicer than that friend of h coming in talking of h past, giving me the impression he's a serial offender.

The mediator is silent, not sure if that's good or bad thing?

There was a letter in my mail box addressed to me at h address, previously he when thanked for dropping them off said he hadn't done it and the mail lady had, but it looks like finger marks on it, mechanics leave prints! Well things get grubby. wink

While I could mind read the mail lady did what the law instructed and it mysteriously got delivered to my box not theirs, it's unlikely. I'm just great full I got it.

Old dog just be nice to you, otherwise who else will?
Crying is not failure, not getting up is failure and being dead is only way it's game over.

The only people in life with out problems are in the cometary! wink


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A basement full of blondes is a whine cellar!

So feel free to add your own joke. I love clever jokes.

I offer I chocolate frog for the best one.


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T 11y
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gg, you're awesome, don't listen to others, if you don't want to, I have been slammed left right and center with news of h and his 'past' small towns...it did my head in for a while, but you know what? even if there's truth in it, it's the past, you can't change it, and you can't let it in. you're not crazy, don't let anyone ever tell you that you are, you are human, you feel stuff and I'd much rather be like that than be an automaton.
I've taken my angry pants off, got the trackies on and I'm ready to start ttomorrow armed and mellow!

speaking of fleas, I always liked, lay down with dogs, you're going to get fleas... kind of applicable right now lol
big hugs gg

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Mickey mouse and Minnie mouse are in divorce court, the judge says he won't grant divorce on the grounds that Minnie is bloody stupid, Mickey says I didn't say she was bloody stupid, I said she was f*cking goofy......boom tish....

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Yeah, I have 5 dogs.

I got a couple more to replace h! At least I don't have fleas.

H has relatives (male) both who cheated. His best mate when we met was a serial cheater. I am not a believer in small town gossip, but it seems if I take h was never a cheater line he seems to be involved over his life with a lot of low class friends and relatives. He has told me about a friendship he had with a woman when married to w1, it was a full blown ea. he didn't understand ea, didn't understand doesn't still.

They sent gifts she sent a stripper gram for h birthday. It's was as he described a full on r! Without sex.
So the rumours I'm starting to think there might have been smoke.

Love the joke! That's a really good one!

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Ms 18 hs 26
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Good one, watto! One from my BIL:

Why did the mermaid where sea shells?


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Because B shells were too small and D shells were too big!


H 37 Me 36
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Married 5 years
No kids
BD Apr 2014
H moved out 2 Jun 2014
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What do you call a dumb blonde behind a steering wheel?


An air bag

Husbands ow is blonde, I do love a great blonde joke. grin
I think his best mates description of her was she looked like some old scrag! That on my worst day I was better presented hands down!

He thinks his mates are jealous re his prowess over women, he has no idea they are thinking wtf!

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M 46 h54
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T 11y
Bd 2/14 I must see where ow leads!
Ms 18 hs 26
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