I know I mentioned this in an earlier post (so forgive me if this comes off as nagging).
But I see many signs he wants R/M, but much like I stepped back the issues (and how to handle them) are beyond my experience.
What my advice is... I think you would benefit from at least one talk with a DB coach. I don't have any vested interest in directing you to them. Its just that in my process, I did not use one, and it is the only regret I have through my D. From reading comments about the coaches, they do have many of the answers and direction for you.
If down the road, my exW ever comes out of her fog, it will be the first call I make.
Me: 43 M: 10y S:15 ILYBINILWY 2/18/13 W moved out 2/18/13 Filed for D: 2/17/13 Got DB: 2/20/13 Got DR: 2/23/13 180 & LRT Began: 2/25/13 D Final Dec '13
I do see small signs that my H is not really done with our M/R.
I dont' see what your saying as nagging at all, I'm asking for feedback:)
DB coach, I will have to continue to think on this one.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
I on the fence about if I want to wear it, today it is off and so far I'm good.
Me 43 ring off Oct 2014 (my ring back on Feb 2015) H 51 (ring off 7/2013) M 2007 T 1996 S 14 July 2013- H told me he was unhappy.....said he is staying for Son Feb 18 2014 Found out about OW
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