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(oh, and you grill AND you shoot guns?? HOW ATTRACTIVE!!)


blush Why, yes. Yes, I do! laugh

Actually, I never knew I liked to shoot guns (or that I'm actually a really good aim - lol) until H left this time. I have a long-time friend who is a cop. (He's the same one H has always thought I have "something" with, even though he's married and we've been friends for years.) The thing is: I like creating mystique. GAL is one thing. But I don't want to out-and-out give H the impression that I'm carrying on something with someone else. Does that make sense? And I'm thinking this shooting-guns thing - while true - is just fueling H's suspicions that "something" (or someONE) is there, even though we are not even legally S at this point ... though that day is getting close.

But regardless, H is carrying on with his life ... and his A ... and, even if he suspects I'm getting too close to someone else, he sure ain't tryin' to stop me.

So, onward ... I think? laugh


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I totally forgot to journal here about a couple small things that DID happen this weekend, Saturday night before prom.

H texted to tell me his parents had made it into town and told me they were eating. He asked if anyone at the house wanted something to eat and encouraged me to "take advantage of (him) being nice (insert smiley face here)." I told him that would be great and gave a list of three things for S7, D2 and me. H and his parents got here, food in tow, but we quickly had to leave to catch DD16&17 walk into prom.

Later, I was hanging with friends and texted H a quick, "Thank you for dinner!"

He replied: "Is it what you wanted?" And then wrote: "Your girls looked absolutely amazing tonight. Good job, momma."

I just replied: "Yes. And thank you. :)"

Dinner stuff? Nice.
"Your girls"? ... when he's raised them since they were 4 and 5 years old? Ouch.

Oh well. I brushed it off and moved right along ...


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Knock, knock, knock.

Hello, Starsky? Could you please provide me a work-able link to your chocolateeyes posts? I found one today, but the link is broken.

It's a rainy day, and I need reading material.

Thank you. smile


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Knock, knock, knock.

Hello, Starsky? Could you please provide me a work-able link to your chocolateeyes posts? I found one today, but the link is broken.

It's a rainy day, and I need reading material.

Thank you. smile


What, is "War and Peace" too short for ya? grin

Here you go. Mind you, I was "Puppy Dog Tails" when my wife and I went thru her affair; Chocolateeyes was my earlier incarnation.

Chocolateeyes' Posts


If you want the Puppy ones, just holla.


Choc/Puppy/Starsky


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Wait a slow-cotton-pickin' minute...Starsky, do you mean to announce to that you are THE Puppy as in Puppy loves smoking cigars??! That one?!

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Ack! I thought you said your crappy times were in 2007, Starsky??? Puppy only started in 2008, I thought? I'm always so confused.

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Y'all make me laugh.


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Oh, and send me Puppy ones, too, pleeeeease. I'm bored today! laugh


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Ack! I thought you said your crappy times were in 2007, Starsky??? Puppy only started in 2008, I thought? I'm always so confused.

Wonka, laugh laugh laugh

Y'all make me laugh.


You're right -- I misspoke. It was May-Aug 2007, and I was indeed Chocolateeyes then.

And now . . . I have to kill you. cool


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Oh, and send me Puppy ones, too, pleeeeease. I'm bored today! laugh



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And now . . . I have to kill you.


Meep. eek

And thank you! You da man.


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