Sorry Debbie5, I really really know how you feel. It's a terrible place to be in, and I can read in your writing that your resentment is really starting to build, as his compliments trigger anger. I stick by my prior post, you need to talk this through with him such that he understands how incredibly important this is to you. I guarantee you he does not. Finding your way out of this starts with you confronting him.

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Married 18, Together 20, Now Divorced
M: 48, W: 50, D: 18, S: 16, D: 12
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 7/13/11
Start Reconcile: 8/15/11
Bomb Dropped (EA, D): 5/1/2014 (Divorced)
In a New Relationship: 3/2015