I'm thinking about leaving my husband,thoughts???

[Ambivalent]

My W confronted me years ago and said that she needed "more" from me, but that was as specific as it got. I had no idea what that meant and didn't feel I had more to give, so I did not respond to it. If I got that comment again I would say "what does 'more' look like to you? When I'm giving you more, what am I doing? What are we doing?" Your chances of having your expectations met goes up substantially if you can get very specific.

Accuray, THANK YOOOOOU! This will come handy form my situation too!