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#2310612 12/30/12 12:53 AM
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Last thread. That one went fast. Still focusing on myself. Still dealing with H's crazymaking. Getting stronger every day.

H has made quesadillas again. Even cooking for me. So he goes from being mean to me to cooking for me. Weird.


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Hey Wishing!

It's been one of those days for you! I understand all too well smile

Envision this... Me, you, our H's out of the house with their dumb a$$ ho bags, snapping at them because we aren't around, and a whole case of wine to celebrate!

Party people in the house!!!! smile

Oh, and we can feed our kids all the cuties they want without worrying about "spoiling " their dinner.

These MLCers are just too much sometimes!


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WH, it seems you are learning to surf as the waves come rolling. Maybe your next thread should be the Beach Boys?

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Peace,
AJ


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Today I am wise, so I am changing myself."
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Ha ha! Just rolling with the waves, AJ. Wary of the undertow and keeping a lookout for sharks. Can't ya feel them circling honey? Can't you see them swimming around? Lol! There's my Parrothead coming out!

I think the next thread will have a Jimmy Buffett theme. I love his music. So relaxing and it soothes me. I can envision myself with a tropical drink with my toes in the sand. I can smell the sea water and hear the sea gulls cawing.

So H made dinner and cleaned up most of the mess. After dinner te kids wanted to play a game and H said he didn't want to and he never took them sledding today either. So I played a game with the kids. H went down to his "man cave" with a drink. So I got D ready for bed. I'll be darned if I am gonna wait for hkm because it's "his weekend". If it's bedtime, it's bedtime. This "my time/your time" crap is ridiculous.

So I am glad this day is over. Now I wonder what H has in store for tomorrow?


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And yes, TVS, one day I will not have to deal with his baloney or his ham!!! Lol!


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U made it thru today!


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Yay!! Another day down. A little stronger. A little wiser. A little worn out but nothing a good nights' sleep can't fix. And I didn't even need any alcohol!! Lol.


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wishing,
You made it through the day of crazymaking!

What time did your h finally have dinner on the table? I'm sure your little ones were hungry. I guess he was tired after cooking that wonderful meal. LOL! I'm sorry he didn't play a game w/the children, but you know what? The children probably were very happy that you played w/them instead. BTW, I don't blame you for putting them to bed at their normal bedtime. Children need a routine and they need to stay on the routine as much as possible.

I think the winter storms annd holidays have all of the mlcers' knickers in a twist. There have been a lot of crazymaking stuff going on this holiday season, i.e., more than usual from years ago.

Today is a new day and hopefully he will settle down and find something productive to do, i.e., like go out and leave you alone for a bit.

Take care!


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The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.
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They ate dinner I want to say about 7:00. S ate all his dinner and the cutie didn't fill him up! Lol! H made root beer floats which is a nice treat but D never drinks that much and then he gets mad at her for not drinking it.

H took them to the store last night so they could use what was left of their gift cards. D ended up getting a toy she really didn't want. She never played with it, never even wanted it opened once we got home. She told me this morning she didn't want that toy. I asked her why she got it and she said dad made her. Apparently she was taking too long picking something out so he rushed her. I don't know the real story since she's only 5, but my kids don't lie. So I told her later we could take it back and get something else.

I am looking forward to see what H is making for breakfast! Lol!


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Just letting u know I'm thinking about you and hoping today is better.

Heather


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