I started to landscape around the house, something I have been meaning to do for a few years.... free stuff off craigslist.... I have no job so I have time... Ping-pong tournament tonite!
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
I just find out the wifes attorney is filing a temporary relief ordee to change are parenting schedule to further marginalize me in his life... why do the honest, honorable, faithful fathers always get punished?
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
My wife found out that I'm going to continue to fight for our sons best interest so she had to call and tell me that she hates me, hates every marrying me and will hate me forever.... is this a normal reaction?
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
Perringo I'm kinda Latino so I will say this. She wants a very strong man. Someone who kind of doesn't care what she says when angry. A man who doesn't go over the other side but ready to do it. Like a tango dance. You must drop the gun and stop fighting. You must feel and look confident and act as if u will be ok if she walked out on you. I know you worked long hours but did u bitch about it? If u did don't. Show that ur ok with busting ur ass. Is she educated and independent? Do u visit her family when asked and are u helpful to them? Don't worry about her angry outburst. Whether it is normal is doesn't matter. You do what's right for the kids period.
Hate to sound sterotypical but if u are Caucasian she already thinks you are not as strong and macho. Didnt say to get a mustache like Geraldo. But u gotta stop being a victim and show pure strength. I think it's time for u to party. I don't mean to hook up and have sex. But it's time to salsa and meet others. Me entiendes?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
In addition you should ask your L if her L being a family member of OM needs t recuse themselves? Contact the ABA of ur state and find out. That L could lose their license. And they should if not ethical practice.
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
Hey Rick- Thanks for the reply, I never complained about working so many hours, And we would visit her family whenever she wants, And I would do anything for any of them. She is very educated, Masters degree. She has always said that she did not want a latin man. I let her decide many things, I told her if it was important I would let her know my opinion. She has a 180 flip, has gone from kind compassionate family orientated moral to... selfish, materialistic, immoral, uncaring of family values...
So I'm lost....
Me: 37 W:33 S: 2 M: 9/5/09 Suspected: 1/7/12 Confirmed: 2/10/12 Served: 3/29/12 W moved out 3/30/12 First court 5/17/12 HELP!
Are u feeling and looking confident? Did u eat what her family cooked or acted disgusted? Is there anything they wanted u to do that u just wouldn't participate? Did u vote for Obama?
M 53 D 20 Separated 6/22/11 moved out 10/24 Together 26 yrs Married 16 W Filed for D 7/21/11 Served 9/6/11 D final 8/28/12
“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”
