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Originally Posted By: zig
I will help you till you completely take over. Are you interested?????/

Yes, thank you


I became accountable.

I see how I have to do this now

MrBond, 25, cat04, KD, Denver, Adinva, Starsky, Accuray. labug, and all of the other vets - will you help, please?

sg - how should it be set up? you said "threads" as opposed to thread. in this forum or the KLA one?

Any suggestions on how the structure will be set up?

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I'm happy to help Zig.


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Thank you Denver, not just from me but all of us smile

any thoughts on how to set up the structure? grin no time like the present and all that...

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A thread is set up. You can start the structure there, if needed it can be moved, but it will likely be more active here.

Zig, please click 'notify' anytime you want moderator help. We will jump in, or respond via Virginia. You should know moderators DO NOT have your personal contact information, only administration does.


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I'm here to support you zig, you know that... cool

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Thanks dbmod smile

about "notify" - does that get posted on the public thread also, or only to the moderator?

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cool
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cool

+ a strawberry:)


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Originally Posted By: zig
Thank you Denver, not just from me but all of us smile

any thoughts on how to set up the structure? grin no time like the present and all that...

zig


Just use the thread the dbmod set up. IMO, any goals that you or anyone else wants to define for themselves have to based on what it is you want. Not just with your M, but what you want for yourself.

They need to be short term and attainable IMO. Begin small. A wise man once told me... "how do you eat an elephant? one bite at a time" ... LOL... funny the things that stay with us.


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Just to begin with....if it grows, I THINK it should be a forum, or could go to Staying Solution Focused.


Setting goals is so at the heart at what we do, and it's extremely neglected, even by myself.


You shall be queen.


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Can y'all help dawnmarie?


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oh yes - thanks for the elephant visual smile - good one to keep at the forefront of one's mind!!

and yes - i did see the thread - alot more than i expected. i feel humbly honored - i had no idea!!

so i guess i will bite the bullet and go jump in tonight

btw - i always thought that the bootcamp threads were to do with goal-setting anyway... how do you see the difference between this one and those?


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