Ro, just read your thread here and, wow, it is inspiring! I am so happy for you and your success throughout this journey. To hear my H tell me he loves me again and to have him want to hug me and kiss me would truly be a miracle! I hope you realize that you really have something special here.
Yes, stay grounded... but enjoy this. You deserve it!
Eh, I don't know about inspiring. If you can learn anything from the mistakes and trip ups I've made, then that's enough for me.
Staying grounded is hard when all I want is to hear him say he's an idiot, made a big mistake, and wants to work things out. LOL I just keep telling myself let this be enough for now. Don't scare the squirrel.
Ro I love your story - thank you for posting it. To get a card like that would be amazing, it's so crazy how the simplest thing like saying "I love you" becomes so important.
Thanks LIO! Because after getting two cards with "I will always love you" on it, I will admit I was discouraged. Then it started not to matter so much. So when I got this card, it was like well, okay then.
I need to catch up on your thread...over there I go. :-)
sounds to me like she is jealous b*tch and needed to remind BOTH of you that she was still there
BOTH of you
a simple thanks with a smiley face in response to her next message might be good
try to keep in mind that she is going to go crazy trying to remind him that he "loves" her...
ler her be the crazy one let her spiral around like a lunatic while you remain calm and confident where you are
do you see how unattractive she made herself how small and petty what a loser
don't fall into it don't let her make you sweat it with him
YOU are the one he is living with YOU are the one he gets to see everyday YOU are the one who has a chance to be gracious and beautiful and loving toward him (when he is in an unloavable position)
be the bigger, better person (because you are)
Hi fig! Thanks for stopping by!
I, too, believe she did it to remind us BOTH that she is still on the side. I didn't respond to her directly, but maybe next time I will. Although H told me that he told her not to respond or post to anything else.
I know she is reaching for every morsel she can get right now. I do need to be the calm one. But I'm going to be honest here and say while I'm the one he's living with, and sees everyday, he still hasn't stopped his A, that I know of. It's getting harder and harder to be the bigger person. Just saying...
watch your husband look into his eyes and tell him you trust him mean it
because you are in a relationship with him not with her
he might not have said the words that he wants to try again but he sure appears to be showing you
You know, I thought about this very thing. How much more crazy am I going to have to deal with?
I'm going to have to work on the whole trusting thing. Clearly his track record isn't good here. I need to figure how to believe his actions even if the words aren't there. Not sure I know how to do that...