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Yeah, that's newer and sporadic. Definitely seems like a positive. And maybe that the EMDR seems to be helping?

Yes, quite an amazing story. I'm glad he shared it with me. Such a cute dog too! I'm sure it'll be adopted quickly.


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Oh and XH and the new girl got married last weekend.

I almost feel bad for her. I really hope he's grown up, but I have no reason to believe he has learned from his mistakes. I know they plan to have kids soon, so I really hope he's better to her.


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Oh holy cow. He really did it. I hope to heavens he has grown up too.


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Yeah. They've been together since last January, so less than a year and a half. He really went full steam ahead with this whole thing. Crazy!

So far, I don't have a ton planned for this weekend. Thank goodness. I think I need a day or two to recover! Moving ahead with refinancing my house, looks like I'll drop my interest rate from 5.25% to 3.75%! Also need to restack firewood and get a couple things cleaned up. Ironically, all my projects just took on more importance since I'm going to have an assessor at the house in the next couple weeks lol. Guess I'd better get the lawn mowed!


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LOL! Get on it girl!!! WOW! 1.5% drop? Incredible!


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Lol. Yeah, it's very exciting. Best part? -0.3 points, so I won't have to put anything into it to fund the refi! It will drop my mortgage by about $150 a month. Which means I can keep paying the same amount, and put it towards more principal or, on tight months, I can use the money for other stuff. smile

I'm not so excited about mowing the lawn. But at least my trees and flowers are looking good! For the assessment, I think any drop in home values (I bought at a pretty low time of the market, but might have dropped a little further) will be countered by the work I've done on the house, planted 3 trees, replaced the last of the single pane windows, remodeled the master closet. *fingers crossed* If needed, I can pull some of my savings and/or the tax refund to cover a drop in the value, but it just makes so much sense finaincially to take advantage of the lower interest rates.

Looks like I'm going by Roger's tonight. Puppy has been there since yesterday morning visiting with her old foster sister. Roger is taking care of Zoe for a week. I'm gonna go by after work and walk the monsters. Good thing I brought a cute change of clothes and make-up with me today just in case! No uniform for me! grin


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Yep! Go in armed!


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That's weird my exh got married the other week. Didn't bother me too much but I wish it hadn't been to her! How was your evening?


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So how was your weekend?


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Weekend was pretty good.

Everything is moving along with the possible refi. Fingers MAJORLY crossed on the appraisal.

Weekend was fun. Birthday party Saturday night, played some pool and chit chatted a bunch. Dropped puppy back at Roger's Monday morning (and what a Monday it was *rolls eyes*). Went by last night because he wanted to give me some coupons for Costco when I mentioned I needed to go. Ended up running into him at Costco while shopping after that (I did pack a super cute top to change into after work though!). I was gonna buy beer, he told me he'd give me half the case he was buying because he'd gotten the rebate in the mail and I was responsible for some of that by buying my computer and gas and such on the account. So we walked out together and split up the beer. I think he thought I looked nice cuz he gave me a nice long hug LOL. I changed into a cute blue halter top and jeans lol. It had a bit of a neckline to it LOL. I wonder what it looked like from 6'3" wink


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