I haven't been on here long, I love the advice I get from 25yrsmlc, she puts a lot of personal attention and thought into what she writes, and she makes me look at myself honestly. Cheers to her!
M 37, H 37 M 10, T 12 S 4 D 2 3/14/12 ILYBNILWY 4/2/12 H consults a L, files nothing 4/26/12 H moves to his new place
Kaffe Diem JackThreeBeans Truegritter desert rat kml 2thepoint Denver_2010 jbnati Queen_of_Swords
(If you belong here, and I/we've missed you, just jump in...this is winging it: MLC/Piecing/SSM forums are FULL of oldtimer/vets with special knowledge)
the important thing is .... the specific questions above
jlove (using Retrouvaille w/DB) Appears to have tried changing communication, backing off (180/LRT); knows when to back off, knows when to step in and get warmer.
ok, I think it's absolutely ridiculous for me to be in the vet club, but I will simply start as an example to the vets as to how this works:
WHO YOU ARE + 44 yo; w: 46; married 11 yrs; 2 kids
WHY YOU WERE SUCCESSFUL + probably because I got my mojo back + broke a number of negative patterns in myself + learned a lot more stuff about relationships that will serve me well in the future
WHICH DB TOOLS YOU USED + primarily LRT (M was severely broken when I found DB) + a number of 180s (breaking negative patterns and behaviours) + a touch of GAL (but not too much... )
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