LOL! I'm in between gigs now. I picked up SDA lady this morning to drop her at church as it was on the way to my Mom's. Wow, SDA lady should not be allowed to stand out on the sidewalk looking that good, chance of accidents is just too great. She looked incredible! There may be something to be said for churches that still have the "dress up" code lol. My church jeans and a cup of coffee is considered dressed up. Anyway, she got in the car and I said "you look so beautiful today" She smiled and thanked me. She then told me that her employer greeted her on the way out with "Where are you going today beautiful lady?" I gave her the Easter gift I'd made for her. It's a photo album with pictures of me and pictures of her. On the cover has the word "love" across it in small letters. In the little frame on the cover I cut out pictures of our heads and placed them together to look like we were holding each other (looks pretty decent, if I do say so myself). I also gave her a card and a cute little chocolate chick. She looked at me and her eyes got all soft and moist, she then let out a moan and said "you are just the sweetest man" she then made a frustrated noise and said "I just put on all this lipstick and now I want to kiss you so badly!" We hugged instead and then drove off. We chatted for a bit and then she reached over and took my hand, began squeezing it and said "Sometimes I miss you so much! I just want to hold onto your hand right now and never let it go!" Wow again. I also told her that I'd completed my income tax yesterday and she said "do you have enough money now so that we can run off to Paris together lol" I dropped her off and headed down to Mom's...Mom didn't want to hold my hand and never let it go, she wanted me to dump junk at the Salvation Army lol. She did buy me lunch though So, I get an hour break and then it's off to setting up the gym...can't wait to see what muscles I pull this year!
It does...holy sh!t ! I thought it was just a nice album from the dollar store. Guess she liked it, eh lol. My Mom told me (not that I shared any of the above with her...cuz I didn't!) "You just be careful that you don't end up with another woman who's gonna change on you" WTH does that even mean? Uh, thanks Mom...I guess.
Oh and the best part, she hadn't even looked at the photo album yet! Asian tradition is that you put gifts aside and look at them later. It is considered bad manners to open a present too eagerly. She was just seemed so touched that I'd brought her something for Easter!
Well, SDA Lady went to church today...and got hit on! I told her that from now on I'm going with her to act as body guard lol. The funniest part is that the guy insisted on giving her a gold plated pen and refused to take it back...from a Casino. She says "we're not even supposed to gamble and he's got expensive pens to give away from a Casino!" Those darn Christian Filipino men, you gotta watch 'em at all times lol!
Wii, a friend of mine is dating a Muslim woman from India who got out of an 18-year arranged marriage. Listening to him talk about the culture clash is interesting and it made my think of you.
Happy Easter.
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Well, SDA Lady and I ended up spending the day together today. It wasn't planned but it just kind of came together. I picked her up and we went for lunch, a walk in the park and then we decided to go to an outlet mall (which we knew was most likely closed and it was) So, we parked in the vacant parking lot, watching the seagulls collect crap. I put my arm around her and she pulled close to me. Well, to make a long story short we got into some pretty decent liplocking. Yes, my faithful readers, it happened...in a vacant parking lot of an outlet mall lol. Afterwards we had an amazing discussion about out R, what we wanted, what we liked most about each other...it was wonderful. We even talked about you know what. At one point I was overcome and tears started spilling down my cheeks. SDA Lady wiped my face and said "it's OK, this is new to both of us. I understand" I said "These tears are joyful tears" I just felt so many wonderful feelings that I didn't know how to express them to her and the tears came. I've never had that before. I feel so cared about when I'm with her. I said "I think there's something so special here between us" and she said "I think so too". Afterwards, I drove her home an went to my Mom's for Easter dinner. Wow, my first real kiss in probably 7 years at least. Btw, when I dropped her off, we kissed a few more times...on the lips now. Mission accomplishd and one day ahead of schedule Tomorrow we're going to the Science Centre and then dropping by her best friends place for a visit. We were both laughing about the fact that we're in our forties and fifties and were making out in a car like teenagers lol. I'm happy tonight.
Hear Hear!!! Way to Go! It was a long time but I'm sure it was worth the wait.
I'm not sure what to say about the tears. I know how emotional divorce is but I'd be careful about letting too much of it out around her or she might get worried.
At any rate - glad it's all going so well for you and hope tomorrow is just as great!
Happy Dyngus Day Wii! Tradition has it that if you douse the object of your affection with water and/or tap her with pussy willows - it will bring the 2 of you closer.
Thanks Barb, the tears were silent and they were nice tears. She was very sweet about them. I guess our talk and everything else just made me realize she really does care for me. What an awesome feeling! She told me she felt so comfortable with me, she felt like she could tell me anything and it would be OK. She liked that she could cry with me and that was OK too. She likes that I'm looking to build a long term relationship with trust and love...before asking for you know what. The few other guys she dated briefly all wanted sex after the first date...and that was their last date! But that I am gentle, respectful, affectionate and loving. She said she's not against us doing "S-E-X" she just wants it to be when it feels right and not just an act done for fun. I said I totally agreed. I told her that I felt I could just be myself around her, I didn't need to impress her by pretending to be someone other than myself. She said "I like you as you are" It was very special, I felt that we confirmed that we're both committed to seeing this out together. Where it goes, who can ever really know. I told her that her laugh was infectious and she said "so you mean I'm a virus lol?" So we talked... and kissed for probably an hour. Today, we're going to the Science Centre and then dropping over to visit her best friend...so she can check me out lol!
