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I know what you mean Barb. Actually, it was four weeks ago and she's been sick the last few weeks. She did say last week, and actually the week before, that she wanted to kiss me but didn't want to get me sick again. But there really is affection oozing out between us when we're together, that's why I'm feeling so relaxed here. Again, she comes from a culture where kissing etc is down the line not like it is in North America. The snuggling, hugging, kissing on the cheek etc that she does is probably way over the line in her mind. Now, to her credit she told me she wanted me to tell her how things are done here because she doesn't know. She said when her friend put her on the dating site her first question was "what if the men want to kiss me or hold my hand, what should I do?" So, only time will tell but I'm quite happy right now. She's an incredible lady...and she's damn lucky to have me too! And btw, she also tells me how lucky she feels, that's nice.


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I spent yesterday evening in the Emerg with D14. She had a fall at gymnastics and sprained her ankle badly. Xrays showed no breaks or tears but she can't walk on it presently. In two weeks she has the Ontario Championships in Ottawa (apparently she's number 9 in the province in her age group and level). So, now it's rush her to physio and see where this goes. Gymnastics coach says three or four physo visits and she could be ready to go for the championships but I dunno. We'll have to make a decision in the next week. I don't want to risk any further injury if that's a possibility. So we'll see. Got a physio appt for 4:00 pm. Wish us luck smile


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Oh my goodness!!!

I sure hope it heals quickly for her. That would be a terrible blow to have to miss out on the championships. frown


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Healing wishes being sent her way!!

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Not to sound an alarm but I read Little Girls in Pretty Boxes several years ago and came away horrified about competitive gymnastics.


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Hey - I posted about this but my post is not here. Maybe it's on another thread but...

Make sure she is safe enough to compete or declare it NO GO! Only the dr can decide that.

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I talked to Voldy tonight and we're both leaning strongly towards pulling her. The therapist didn't sound too hopeful, he said it was "possible" as he scrunched his face but he'd have to wait until Wednesday to give me any real idea. She has no practices until Ottawa and so how the heck can we know whether she's even able to take the pounding her ankle will have to take. We don't want her to be damaged any further nor do we want to end up in an Emerg in Ottawa! So, we shall see.


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I texted SDA Lady and suggested that I come over this afternoon, pick her up and we run away together. She said that it was too cool today and that I'm supposed to be doing my Income Taxes anyway. Damn. So I suggested that we run away together on April 7, 2014 and that we should each mark it on our calenders. So on that date could one of you guys remind me...just in case!


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Not me - that will be one week after my 10 year anniversary with Josh. I hope we are sailing off into the sunset somewhere. It's not too cool - we were out hiking in the woods here in Muskoka and I had to take my vest off off - way too warm! Good for you for trying something spontaneous though.


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C'mon Barb, it's just one lousy post I'm asking for here! I told her I was doing my income tax so I'd get enough money with the refund to take her to France so she can trace her family roots. She's showing interest now lol. Unfortunately, I've hit a very big road bump, namely I don't know what the hell I'm doing!!!!


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