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#2240955 - 04/26/12 12:29 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
adinva Offline
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what are legal grounds in your state?
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#2240958 - 04/26/12 12:32 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: adinva]
labug Offline
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AZ-no fault. I could mail it in.
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#2241012 - 04/26/12 04:40 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: labug]
cat04 Offline
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Monkey,

I am unfamiliar with the laws where you are, however, I do know that other states in that area have made divorce much harder in recent years.

I guess my question to you are...

How would you benefit by dragging it out?

What "man" would you be showing her and the world if you do that?

How does making it more difficult reflect the man that you aspire to be in comparison to the man that you were?

Do the words in the petition really matter all that much?
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#2241019 - 04/26/12 04:59 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: cat04]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
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Thats just my point. I do not want to draw it out.
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#2241024 - 04/26/12 05:10 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
Broken74 Offline
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Hey Grmpy, just wanted to drop in and say keep your chin up man!
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#2241030 - 04/26/12 05:27 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Broken74]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Thanks bro!
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#2241031 - 04/26/12 05:37 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
Shaky Offline
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Loc: Hillsboro,Or.
I would imagine that only people that benefit dragging it out is the lawyers, f-that.

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#2263430 - 07/18/12 12:23 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Shaky]
Grmpy_Mnky Offline
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Registered: 12/17/11
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Loc: MS
Well, it has been some time...

I'm divorced now and the "drama" has come to an end. I am profoundly happy and thankful for that. I am also profoundly thankful for those of you that stood by me on those "dark nights".

To those of you just arrivng...hang in there and listen. You will get through this and life will once again be good!

Peace
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#2263454 - 07/18/12 01:20 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: Grmpy_Mnky]
~ kd ~ Offline
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Registered: 03/20/11
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Loc: Canoe'k-land
It is good to hear the drama is over. Keep us up to date if anything changes between the two of you, if you are willing. It would be interesting to know if your W's behaviour changes in the coming months.

And yes... dogs REALLY do like bacon... I think they might be on to something... grin

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#2263486 - 07/18/12 02:29 PM Re: Sure was a nice rocking chair.. [Re: ~ kd ~]
sayitaintso Offline
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Registered: 11/04/11
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I saw Grmpy_Mnky on the home page and I was like whaaatttttt.

Good to see you back and drama free.
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