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#2231423 - 03/17/12 12:17 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: MichelleLT]
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Right before the KU game, the boys and I thought we saw ex outside the venue. Anyway watched the game and after I thought I would post a note about his fan twin.

FB opened Jo to his info. Being a tad curious, I saw how he was going on about being a dad to four great kids and now two step kids. Acting as if they were the Brady bunch...they are rarely together! Anyhow he mentioned how his wife is the love of his life and she completes him. While I am thinking how cliche that is and also how insecure he is alone, I felt a bit hurt.

Lesson learned to not snoop, it just brings up old wounds.

kat
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#2231429 - 03/17/12 01:08 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: kat727]
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OUCH. Scraped that scab off huh? YUCK!
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#2231433 - 03/17/12 01:22 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: mishka422]
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Nicked it more like. Nothing like how it would be if it had been shortly after the divorce. I was his dream according to him so he does have a bit of sn immature view of love and relationships. When it becomes work, it won't be love anymore in his book.

Kat
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#2231434 - 03/17/12 01:48 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: kat727]
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Sad.
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T19 M15 S19 XH46 M43
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PA5/07
S12/26/07
D final 11/17/08
Back together with no defined R 05/2010
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#2231435 - 03/17/12 01:55 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: kat727]
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Originally Posted By: kat727
Lesson learned to not snoop, it just brings up old wounds.

Nothing good can come of it. Nothing. We diminish ourselves when we do that. I've done it...and got the same results you did. Hurt.
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#2231462 - 03/17/12 04:45 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: kat727]
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Originally Posted By: kat727
Nicked it more like. Nothing like how it would be if it had been shortly after the divorce. I was his dream according to him so he does have a bit of sn immature view of love and relationships. When it becomes work, it won't be love anymore in his book.

Kat


Jeez Kat did we marry the same man? When it came to work, my ex thought he'd just move onto the next. I'm sorry you had to see that . I find the best way to deal with it is not to find it. I snooped too and found a pic on fb of them kissing at at their wedding. It was so staged. I felt a twinge and it went away.

And fwiw, the ones who need to publicly talk it up are the ones who need to convince themselves.

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#2231473 - 03/17/12 06:10 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: gabbysmom23]
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Originally Posted By: gabbysmom23
[quote=kat727]And fwiw, the ones who need to publicly talk it up are the ones who need to convince themselves.

I think there's some truth to that.
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#2231474 - 03/17/12 06:13 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: antlers]
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Why can't posts be edited?
It'd be nice to be able to correct a mistake!
What's the rationale for taking away posters ability to edit?
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#2231488 - 03/17/12 07:55 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: antlers]
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The mods believed that we are too immature to contact each other outside of this forum. So they took away the edit feature so no covert communications could be made.
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#2231489 - 03/17/12 08:03 PM Re: Time to let go of the ordinary...#35 [Re: kat727]
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Gineen, it really gets me when he tries to write himself up to be something he isn't. I don't know if he will ever win S19 back. S16 is sort of the class clown so he just jokes a lot when he is around his dad but he doesn't feel much of a connection. The girls are in a half love/half hate relationship with him. It makes me sad for my kids but I know this is his situation to resolve.

I haven't had any contact since before the divorce with the OW. I don't see her or ex playing a big part in their lives once their mandatory visits are done at 18. Sad but true.

kat
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