try not to think about it too much. sometimes i think they do the obvious phone thing to balance out all the secretive moments. as though if they leave it out today.. then you won't get suspicious tomorrow.
if he's being nice and loving, it must be nice to be able to enjoy that.
BF - Good point. But I'll be suspicious for a while yet. LOL
I'm not sure if I SHOULD be enjoying it, ya know? So confusing...
I was told in DB coaching that my W is testing me, over and over - looking for proof that she is right (about wanting D; about me never changing for the positive).
Her last sleepover at my apartment, she left her laptop and purse in the living room. When I said I couldn't sleep (she was tired and wanted to crash early), I went to the living room to read. she came charging out 10 min later and - voila! - I was merely reading, her stuff safely where she'd left it.
We had great sex that night after watching some TV and talking.
I was told in DB coaching that my W is testing me, over and over - looking for proof that she is right (about wanting D; about me never changing for the positive).
Her last sleepover at my apartment, she left her laptop and purse in the living room. When I said I couldn't sleep (she was tired and wanted to crash early), I went to the living room to read. she came charging out 10 min later and - voila! - I was merely reading, her stuff safely where she'd left it.
We had great sex that night after watching some TV and talking.
Tests - may we see them and pass them!
That's hilarious! He probably was testing me...glad I didn't fall for it!
H just called me after getting off the train. I can tell you from my research (snooping) that normally, the first thing he does is talk to OW...or maybe one of his friends. Not saying he won't do this AFTER talking to me, but I thought it was strange regardless.
He called to see what I wanted to for dinner. So we chatted and decided on pizza (his favorite food). I told him I'd pick up some bottled water and other stuff from the store that we needed.
I swear I'm dealing with someone who has multiple personality disorder. Or he's either a child in a grown-up's body. LOL
Came home chatted about our respective days. He had already eaten so I ate then did some stuff on my laptop. Now we're sitting in the living room. I was checking Twitter on my phone. No biggie. This dude is now doing some serious texting (or something) on his phone and has his leg propped up like he's trying to hide it. I can honestly say that I have never seen him propped up on the couch like this. In the 4 years he's been living here. It's just too crazy! I want to say, "You know I can still see you right?" LOL
He kept holding the phone up for me to see every few minutes. This guy!? LOL
I don't know what to think anymore. Trying not to let him being "normal" throw me off. Don't want to start believing he's reaching out, then the hatchet comes down.
I hate feeling like this. Makes me antsy. Need to sit down and seriously re-read DR. I feel like I need reinforcements or something. Don't want to do something that causes us to backslide.
