Holy cow! 10 flipping years of separation? Do you know Warren Buffet was separated until his wife Suzie died a few years ago? She got sick of his crap and moved out west with her tennis coach, left him with a lovely woman to do housekeeping/act as a companion....

I have 2 little kids and waffle between letting it ride and cutting him loose. I don't want my almost 4 year old to think MIA husband is something acceptable for herself. BUT...son only had a live in dad for 4 months. At least now we won't have him asking if he "caused" daddy to move out.

Dingaling.

Oh well, shallow dating pool in town. Who knows what will happen. For now, kids, new job, and getting house sorted out.


Faith is, at one and the same time, absolutely necessary and altogether impossible.
--Stanislaw Lem