I also agree to not contact him again. He seemed to be coming on pretty strong even though you told him that you did NOT want anything serious. Then to just stop talking when you ask about Thursday because you didn't want him to come with you and your sister to lunch, he seems too eager to me.
Have fun going to a movie.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
I agree with WN. I think because he didn't respond to you it's a perfect out for you. If he comes back then you tell him like WN suggested. I was OK with Zoobrew (he seemed genuine and a MITCH! lol) but Rugby sounded a bit too needy...remember I commented in the passing that wow he was already touching your stomach etc? but then I thought that's how other guys are
Other than that sounds like you're well and good!
Me: 35|WAW: 38|D: 6yo | http://tinyurl.com/2dxx7m6 Feb 2006, left, came back in two weeks Aug 2006, left again Apr 2007, filed for divorce Dec 2007, reunited Mar 2010, moved out, filed again
DATING SHOULD BE FUN!!! NOT A BATTLE ZONE! LMAO!!!!!!!!
Says who? Never been on a bad date? Let's face it, most of them are not so good.
Let's label bad dates:
1. Serial dater. She isn't looking for any kind of relationship; she just wants you to spend your money entertaining her.
2. Bad attitude: He/She is either angry or depressed and you find yourself looking for a way to wind the date up early so you don't become the target of their anger or wind up blowing your own brains out after being infected with their depression.
3. More baggage than a bell hop at a Vegas hotel: they spend most of their time telling you about their last relationship..., or worse... the string of utterly horrific relationships they've been in.
4. The potential stalker: after the 30th email and 50th phone call you find yourself thinking, "I am so glad they do not know where I live... but... oh no... they can buy that information!".
5. Fruit loop: this man/woman has more cats than is healthy, a string of phobias that would impress Sigmund Freud, keeps asking you if you think they are strange, but tells you they have discovered the meaning of life and true happiness through healing crystals. Oh, and they have psychic abilities.
Shall I go on?
It's a battlefield... especially if you go on those dating sites.
M-47,W-40,No kids D-filed 5/27/2010 Piecing - 10/21/2010 -=Soon to be banned=-
I have to disagree. I have been on dates with about a dozen women from "those dating sites", and I don't think any would fall into any of those categories. Only a few warranted a second date, but that's not the same thing as being a bad date.
It's not necessarily easy, but I don't think it's anywhere near a battlefield.
I have to disagree. I have been on dates with about a dozen women from "those dating sites", and I don't think any would fall into any of those categories. Only a few warranted a second date, but that's not the same thing as being a bad date.
I too have not had any bad dates from match dot com or met any of those categories TimeHeals mentions. I went into each one with an attitude that even if we were not compatible, I still want to enjoy the conversation and learn about someone new.
I have to agree with the others on Rugby, too clingy right from the start and if he can't give you the courtesy of an answer, why give him the courtesy of your presence? Go see the movie, then tell us all about it. What movie is it?
New thread: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2112303
With the swimming diapers, they are not meant to be for anything but swimming. If you use them just in the pool or some type of water I have found them to work great, but S wasn't in them for longer than 2 or 3 hours at a time. Then I would change him. As a replacement for a diaper they won't work, but just for swimming, it is so much better than a diaper that is soaked and won't hold a thing because they are already soaked with water.
Me29 S3 H left 4/1/09 I file 8/2/10 Divorce final 5/17/11 1st http://www.tinyurl.com/25lhu52 2nd http://www.tinyurl.com/2c35ueg 3rd http://www.tinyurl.com/322yk89
lol! swimming diapers and online dating are 2 topics that generate a lot of opinions!
Well it makes sense that the diapers are supposed to keep #2 in but allow #1 to flow. Again, I ONLY used them because they were in the car! But now I know, right?
S' day at daycare for 4 hours was a success- no fussing and he has made a buddy! I spent some time with a teacher friend, eating lunch (I eat a lot of salads or soups!) and buying some supplies...the beginning of the year is the best! FRESH...tabula rasa!
Now I am off to visit my g-ma and help her with online bills, but g-ma wants some KFC! Calorie wise, I think I can eat the mashed potatoes...will look it up!
and no word from Rugby (phew!) so I deleted his number officially from my phone. Hey, at least he didn't try to sext me!
me,34 exH,34 S,16 months S:3/31/09-left for OW started DBing 10/09 d final: sometime 10/10 current: http://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2022856&page=1 met in 2004
Well when I joined match i got a handful of pervs wanting text sex, phone sex, or of course real sex if they thought they could get it
I wound up removing 1200 profiles before I un-subscribed. I would rather be alone than with someone I am not drawn to... I had one gross date, one nice date w/a guy who realized he was still hung up on the pain of his second divorce, then guy #3 I had known in college but when we met all I felt was friend potential. Decided to get my stuff in order before I tread out there again.
Sounds like you are having fun. The jetboat sounds like a good time!
