What BM said; also, new GF is only trying to "serve in this space." HA! Too hilarious.
I have to say I hope new GF wises up-- I feel sorry for her! But I'm so glad the Witch is out of your D's life.
Such good news about the job! Wish your X would lose his (now that would be some kick*ss karma!). I'd like to see him get his utilities shut off... in the wintertime... and have to ask you for a loan.
I hope D's relative come through for her with the trip money.
Wow, Andabelle! you have quite a memory!! I know many of those icky phrases have run thru my head recently, with appropriately snarky come-backs!
interesting that the excuse xH used to me for ending it with the witch is that she wouldn't have a relationship with D14. That didn't seem to bother him for a couple of years, until the new one came along; I think this is post-mortem justification! But whatever. in that explanation was the first time he mentioned the woman's name to me--and the shift in his attitude and response is giving me whiplash.
Yeah, it would be great karma for him to be sick and alone in the dark without heat in the wintertime--ugh! flashbacks! But he'd just charm somebody into taking him in, it would never happen.
BTW--just remembered. I kept getting emails from xH's church about youth group activities for D14, which irritated me. Finally last week I answered one of them, and told them that it would be too confusing to have my daughter involved in a faith community that supports adultery after all the ways she has suffered as a result of it. So would you be so kind as to remove me from your email lists, thankyouverymuch.
M60 H52 D20 M14 yrs OW-old gf from 1986 bomb-5/18/08 H filed for D-9/10/08 D final 4/24/09 xH remarried (not OW) 2012
What BM said; also, new GF is only trying to "serve in this space." HA! Too hilarious.
I have to say I hope new GF wises up-- I feel sorry for her! But I'm so glad the Witch is out of your D's life.
Such good news about the job! Wish your X would lose his (now that would be some kick*ss karma!). I'd like to see him get his utilities shut off... in the wintertime... and have to ask you for a loan.
I hope D's relative come through for her with the trip money.
OK, moderator(s), where's that kickass little "thumbs-up"/"Like" button??
BTW--just remembered. I kept getting emails from xH's church about youth group activities for D14, which irritated me. Finally last week I answered one of them, and told them that it would be too confusing to have my daughter involved in a faith community that supports adultery after all the ways she has suffered as a result of it. So would you be so kind as to remove me from your email lists, thankyouverymuch.
HM, Congrats on the new job!!! Raise sounds awesome! Congrats on seeing that OW got it in the end. I know it shouldn't matter but some how it makes me grin a bit....
Anyhow, not sure what is entailed in your new job but I am a part time medical librarian (former nurse) so if so need some tips on pulling up stats or the latest in medical info, or what databases to use, I can (hopefully) give you some hints.
Anyhow, if you think I might be of use to you I am DeeBee and my user name. Just look at Flowmom's friend's or Cutter. I am not a member of the Dbusting group b/c none of my friends know of anything concerning my past with hubby.
Also, love the email to the church!
M38, H37 S3, S7 Together 15 yrs Married 8 yrs Bomb July 2008 Inhouse separation "I hate you" "We are over" (too many times to count) Reconciled Sept 2009 (still worth it)
