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#1855821 - 10/14/09 08:52 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: CityGirl]
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CG,

Guess I just want to make sure I am doing things right. My question really was should I even ask her to pay half or just pick it up. It wasn't should I leave her out of it if she can't pay.

Plus it is her night with the girls and she could say to me to bad, no dinner. So it was either see if she will pay half or just pick up the whole thing.

I saw you just updated your thread CG. I will be anxious to read it when you finish updating.

Tomato,

I am doing good homey. I am getting into shape and GALing. I am physically and mentally in better shape than I have been in some time. I put pride into my appearance now and my home and doing better all the way around.

Thanks for asking.

Kevin
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M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1855827 - 10/14/09 08:58 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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great news pal. so nice to hear many positives. the devil is unhappy about our progress. let's make a pact to keep him very upset. Be with the Lord and He with you. He is so magnificent!

T
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#1855829 - 10/14/09 09:00 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: CityGirl]
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I put a post on mine after not having done so for a while. The Lord continues the rebuilding process with me and my darling. Slowly but surely. Just trying not to rush things. That's when mistakes get made.

T
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#1855832 - 10/14/09 09:02 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: Tomato]
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guess you saw my bald-spot on the overhead snap shot from the mtg with clint & penny. I had a blast. They even gave me a copy of their recent book + a cd of their's. Awesome.

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#1855838 - 10/14/09 09:03 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: Tomato]
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That is awesome Tomato. I am with you on the Lord to. The pact will definitely be to defeat the dark one who I won't even give the satisfaction of calling him by his lowsy stinking name.

I will scoot on over and check out your post.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
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#1855843 - 10/14/09 09:05 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Quote:
guess you saw my bald-spot on the overhead snap shot from the mtg with clint & penny. I had a blast. They even gave me a copy of their recent book + a cd of their's. Awesome.


Don't feel bad. My hair has thinned to directly on top. I have been recently trying to see if there are any products that ACTUALLY WORK out there to regrow hair.

I'm glad you had a blast.

Kevin
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M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
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W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
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#1855858 - 10/14/09 09:19 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Great to hear. I had a feeling she'd be okay with it.

Be the gentleman and pick-up the tab. You should have told her that it was your suggestion and that you don't want to bring up any money issues. Just for everyone to have a great time.

Then don't say anything else about it.
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Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
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#1855867 - 10/14/09 09:27 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: MrBond]
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Thanks Stuck,

I just sent her a text saying dinner tomorrow night was my idea so I will pick up the bill. Lets just all have a great time.

I left it at that. I appreciate the advice.

Kevin
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Me 36, W 37
M: 08/02/97
D13, D9
1st Bomb 02/08
Reconciled 04/08
2nd Bomb: 09/08
W filed for D 02/04/09
Separated 03/09
D dismissed 06/09/09
Still separated...

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#1855872 - 10/14/09 09:29 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: K4D]
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Nicely put. Great advice as always Stuck.

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#1855881 - 10/14/09 09:37 PM Re: K4D Rising #4 [Re: PMA_Baby!]
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Yeah, since you invited her, you have to pay.

Think twice about anything you say tomorrow. No R talk would be a very good plan!
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