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Re: Trusting yourself frank_D #1894268 12/15/09 05:03 AM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992 S smith18 Member
smith18 Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992	Dont do anything. Not your business.

Re: Trusting yourself smith18 #1894365 12/15/09 07:27 AM
Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,194 Australia/Pacific W Walking Member
Walking Member W Joined: Aug 2005 Posts: 1,194 Australia/Pacific	You can't control the world my friend. Poor taste? Yes. Inappropriate? May well be. Her problem when friends and family open the card and shake their heads? Absolutely. Your D14 ... is 14 ... and her parents christmas cards should be none of her concern ..... please keep it that way. Let it roll of you back. V Never make someone a priority, who makes you an option.

Re: Trusting yourself Walking #1894377 12/15/09 11:41 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,320 Likes: 10 D Drew Member
Drew Member D Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 2,320 Likes: 10	Frank, I'd rather hear about the cool Christmas cards you're sending out. Everybody hurts. It's part of life. Don't miss the good stuff.

Re: Trusting yourself Drew #1894548 12/15/09 04:25 PM
Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV F frank_D OP Member
OP frank_D Member F Joined: Nov 2005 Posts: 4,941 Las Vegas, NV	Yeah, poor taste and not my problem. Current Thread

Re: Trusting yourself frank_D #1894586 12/15/09 04:56 PM
Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,035 NY F faithisbelieving Member
faithisbelieving Member F Joined: Jul 2006 Posts: 4,035 NY	Quote: I'd rather hear about the cool Christmas cards you're sending out. Agree. I've been sending out my own cards now for 2 years. I'll send you one frank if you FB me your address. She is on her own now frank. Also agree that there is no accounting for good taste. Costco has some fun software to make your own card. FIB Me 55; XW 47; 2 kids (S13, D11) Bomb 05/19/06 Original thread http://tinyurl.com/yg2ou2t Last anniversary 04/25/10, Divorced 5/12/10 Status: Loving father of 2 beautiful children;

Re: Trusting yourself faithisbelieving #1895826 12/16/09 08:13 PM
Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast 2 25yearsmlc Member
25yearsmlc Member 2 Joined: Apr 2006 Posts: 13,511 Likes: 1 CA- now East coast	Originally Posted By: faithisbelieving Quote: I'd rather hear about the cool Christmas cards you're sending out. Agree. I've been sending out my own cards now for 2 years. I'll send you one frank if you FB me your address. She is on her own now frank. Also agree that there is no accounting for good taste. Costco has some fun software to make your own card. FIB Amen to above. Spend zero time on this frankD. Zero. NEXT!! j- M: 57 H: 60 M: 35 yrs S30,D28,D19 H off to Alaska 2006 Recon 7/07- 8/08 2016 X = "ALASKA 2.0" GROUND HOG DAY I File D 10/16 OW DIV 2/26/2018 X marries OW 5/2016 = CLOSURE 4 ME Embrace the Change

Re: Trusting yourself 25yearsmlc #1896038 12/16/09 10:52 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 951 F figgeroni Member
figgeroni Member F Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 951	if that is ex's family (her, OM and D14) then that is who should be on the card... I have a friend that sends hers out from her dogs... I have never met her dogs yet they send me a holiday letter and sign with their paw prints... my ex used my engagement ring to propose to the little girl he was seeing... crass and tasteless??? who cares??? he wasn't proposing to me again using it and I surely wouldn't have said yes!!!

Re: Trusting yourself figgeroni #1896046 12/16/09 10:58 PM
Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992 S smith18 Member
smith18 Member S Joined: Oct 2007 Posts: 5,992	OMG fig! I dont want to ask how you found that out. Did the little girl know it was used?

Re: Trusting yourself smith18 #1896074 12/16/09 11:19 PM
Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 951 F figgeroni Member
figgeroni Member F Joined: Oct 2009 Posts: 951	yup...she was proud of it she came up to show me something to the effect of this used to be yours and now it's mine hahaha I had heard about it from another friend 1st if I remember correctly it was forever ago and he matters so much to me now that I can't remember except for that little 20 year old's face showing so much pride and glee that he proposed to her using my ring (eyeroll)

Re: Trusting yourself figgeroni #1896083 12/16/09 11:29 PM
Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646 J Jack_Three_Beans Moderator
Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	These teeth used to be yours, Now they are the tooth fairys. You showed more class and restraint than I ever think I could have. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

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