Just thinking some more Oz. I guess I have not given up hope because although we have been apart so long he does keep finding his way back. As I get more involved in work and social life H will either be there or he'll disappear completely. This limbo won't last forever.
In the mentime I'm living the best life I can and I'm certainly as social (and if not more) so as when H was here.
I am glad you haven't given up hope even though you have been at this for so long. I have a feeling he will find his way back but it is going to be a real slow process and you are right, the limbo can't last forever, something has to give as it is too hard to live like that forever.
Your get together sounds wonderful really wish I could be there to, but its a little harder to achieve on a budget from over here!
Cas you are an inspiration on the patience and no expectations front, all of us know how hard it is to do and patience certainly isnt usually us girlies strong point.
IMHO I agree with Oz your H is still there dipping in and out, ok it may be a while before he lifts his fog but who knows, never say never and as you long as you carry on GAL and fufulling yourself regardless of H thats got to be good!
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W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30
Once lost but now found and happily married again!
I agree girls. Cas has the gold medal in patience stakes.
Keep on GAL'ing Cas and slowly tick off the things on your 'wanted and to do' list ... it will make you feel better and when H does come around, he will be amazed by your achievements.
You doing OK today??
WAH 43; W 47 M 16; T 17 Cats 15 & 6 Bomb 27/05/09 ow 28/06/09
"It is only on the darkest night that we see the stars"
