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Re: How do you wait this out? brandnewday #1832179 09/04/09 03:53 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	... I don't even know you anymore... Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How do you wait this out? Golfgirl1 #1832180 09/04/09 03:53 PM
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OP Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	I meant NOT sitting home waiting for the call... Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: How do you wait this out? Golfgirl1 #1832181 09/04/09 03:54 PM
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OP Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	Jack...what the heck are you trying to say?? Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: How do you wait this out? Jack_Three_Beans #1832182 09/04/09 03:55 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Quote: was hoping that meant to him I F@#k him. Do for you. Stop trying to make him think, or maybe he will wonder...or any of that BS. Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How do you wait this out? Jack_Three_Beans #1832184 09/04/09 03:56 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	I am sorry I was talking to brandnewday and her satanic views on yuppie food places. : ) Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How do you wait this out? Jack_Three_Beans #1832190 09/04/09 04:01 PM
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OP Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	Jack, You're right...just gotta go with it and do for me. Sigh....it's easier than when this all started in May, but still hard! Gotta keep things in perspective I guess. Looking forward to the 'down time' this weekend and focusing on me. Thanks for checking in on me.... Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: How do you wait this out? Golfgirl1 #1832198 09/04/09 04:10 PM
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OP Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. Theodore Roosevelt Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: How do you wait this out? Golfgirl1 #1832203 09/04/09 04:15 PM
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Jack_Three_Beans Moderator J Joined: Jan 2006 Posts: 11,646	Golf, That is a pretty quote. This...this right now, this hell...this helps define you. Success is great, who doesn't like success? BUT it is this struggle, and failing that shows people our true character. This shows other people what we are capable of. Anyone can be strong when everything goes right. It takes bad weather to show the leaks in the roof. : ) Experience is a brutal teacher, but you learn. My God, do you learn. - C.S. Lewis Life is usually all about how you handle Plan B. - Jack3Beans Listen without defending; Speak without offending - FaithinAK TRUST THE PROCESS - Cadet

Re: How do you wait this out? Jack_Three_Beans #1832224 09/04/09 04:38 PM
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OP Golfgirl1 Member G Joined: Jun 2009 Posts: 802 CO	Okay, I think I would like to try a divorce busting coach. Can someone recommend one of them? I went to the site and there are several to choose from. Anyone like one in particular? M 47 H 42 Married 20 years NO kids Bomb 5/09 Me 55 H 49 Married 21 years No kids bomb 5/09 filed 7/09 divorced and moving forward 5/10 Life is all about Plan B

Re: How do you wait this out? Golfgirl1 #1832235 09/04/09 04:48 PM
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Lost Rabbit Member L Joined: Aug 2009 Posts: 1,317	Hope you dont mind me popping in Golfgirl, would be interested to hear what folks say about DB coaches, although I wont be able to do that till I can pay for it myself as I dont want H knowing.. ____________________________ W 47 H 47 M 24 T 30 Once lost but now found and happily married again!

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