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Just appealed to my sick sense of humour, Oz. I had thought she might be a little worried cos clearly H's track record following illness is not too good!

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Good to maintain a sense of humour, sick or otherwise, I think it makes things easier to deal with sometimes.



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LMAO that's so funny. I'm pleased h accepted the birthday invite. To me it just shows that you guys can recover from these instances and that the bonds are stronger than you think.


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Hi Cas

Good shout re the lunch, it will be appreciated, whether you know about it or not it another question.

As for the sense of humour I'm liking it, good for the PMA.

Dinner for birthdays - great. Your chance to show how fabulous you are - get a new frock, smile a lot. Let him see what he's missing. Have a great time.

We do the birthday thing too. It occurs to me that our H must realise that they will never be able to do family stuff like that with the OW (my kids wouldn't allow it) sad really


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My kids wouldn't allow it either Bonny. I guess they must miss the family time. H always seems to relax and enjoy the occasion

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Well I think my food idea just bombed. S had a small issue with H and says he's not going over to help tomorrow so no delivery person and I won't go there uninvited. D says she won't bother going now either cos she has lots of homework. Oh well, could enjoy a nice cake here with the kids.

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Yep do that. Although kids change their minds all the time so I’d wait and see what tomorrow brings.

Perhaps a text to wish him well in his new home?


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Hi Cas

Enjoy your cake at home with the kids. Mine want nothing to do with H at present, sad because I don't think the WAS really realise what they are throwing away by their actions as they are to wrapped up in their own little me me world.

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That's right Oz. S was in his righte to pull the pin on the moving. H only does things for any of us that suit him.

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Today D told me that ow was helping with the move. This is really bothering me because his parents are also helping and H had suggested that H, the kids, his parents and I could all go out to dinner Tuesday night. I feel like he is mixing it all in together and being fair to nobody.

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