Newbie (again)

[dday101798]

Taking the day off today. No boss today anyhow. Just gonna help get stuff ready for the transition for my cousins kid moving back in and other random doodles.

S12 blew the heck up out of my phone last night too, really late IMO. For some reason, I just was not in the mood and knew it's part of whatever new game XW is playing. Does the B/S ever end?

[karen43]

So you think your XW manipulates him into calling you or something like that? Why would she do that? And if she does, that is so twisted!

[dday101798]

Yeah, unfortunately, I think this enitre thread is laidened with that tactic from XW. She ALWAYS uses him as the go between, which is yet, another no-no.

What a weekend. Spent Half out of it, had this weird thing going on, bruning up and out of voice and blahhh.

Time with the kids was good. Weather was nice and we played chess out on the deck almost all day Saturday and pretty much vegged out yesterday.

Heh, when I picked them up Friday night, OM was parked like a bafoon blocking the street (in my car ). Kids were out instantly and XW not too far behind. Kids were desperate to get out of there. Apparetnly XW and OM had some blow out of mass proportions and OM spent the previous half hour in the car (probably texting or calling his NEXT fling? ). Xw was being 'nicer', which just backed up the whole fighting thing. Can she seriously think I'm still a plan B for her to run to? Seriously, get the hint hon, you're on your own now.

Any way, upon leaving, both kids said they were fighting and screaming at each other and then the boys, go figure. uggh. So, we go to dinner at the local place as usual. End up having to get a table in the back and low and behold, X-FIL and his grilfrined were there at the next table. Didn't acknowledge or say a word. Finally x-FIL's girlfriend came over by us "I had to come say hello, I saw you guys come in, I can't couldn't take it anymore, didn't you see us?" I said politely, 'yes, I saw you, and I have nothing against you, how are you doing?' A little convo went back and forth and X-FIL just sneared from his seat. lol, I can hold a grudge for a long, long time, buddy, get used to it.

Anyway, supposidly, XW is taking S11 for his physical today, he says she's lying. Ohhhh, XW and OM apparently now work together. How cute. Ummmm, that REALLY eliminates any prospects of me EVER being a 'plan B', FOR SURE.

Anyway, last night's drop off, perfect. XW stayed inside and never came out. Perfect.

One thing I have noticed recently. I've noticed on Sunday nights when it's time to head back, S12 always sneaks a spray or two of my cologne that XW used to really like. Last night, he couldn't say he didn't because he must have used 20 sprays because he simply wreaked of the stuff. What's up with that?

[WalkingMan]

Plans in general for many WAS's are a fantasy. For the most part thier plan 'B' is a house of cards.

[dday101798]

Nothing much to update on the sitch.

I just e-mailed my C and dropped our sessions, I don't think I'm benefiting from them an donly rehashing things I can't control. The first few helped remind me of things I've already survived and that I can and will survive the current life dilemas.

Other than that, focusing on getting through the holidays this year, which are set up pretty much like last year so I pretty much know what to expect on that front.

Some things on XW, well, I replied to someone else to asked about the 'talk' she wanted to have that never happened. I'm assuming at this point, it was probably to see if I'd reach out and try to talk to her since things are supposidly going really south with OM. I concluded that's not my problem. My ship has undocked, cleared the harbor and the masts are rigged for sail.

If XW ever decides she wants to rejoin the fleet, she'll have some catching up to do. However, her ammassed disregard for legal agreements says she has no intent, and I don't care, I'm covered, she can try to play all the games she wants. Apparently she forgot the games ended nearly 6 month ago now, and she no longer has a say in the rules of future games.

Other than that, lookin forward to Thursday, making ham, greenbean cassarole and a fresh apple pie (that'll be a first ), and a holiday with the kids. Then Saturday, a date of sorts and a real good time.

[WalkingMan]

Nice. Just make sure you really beleive the ship has left the harbour and your not looking over your shoulder. You have to really beleive and let go. Only then will the possibilities be realized, one way or another.

It's great that you are getting out on a 'date of sorts.' I tell you when I was ready, seeing women really helped me to realize what it was like to actually be appreciated and respected again. It felt great. This along with the permanant changes I made by DB'ing made me a good catch as well as the feeling that I deserve a good person in my life.

Have a great holiday!

[dday101798]

Nice. Just make sure you really beleive the ship has left the harbour and your not looking over your shoulder.

I believe that is something that the C in a way helped me do. I guess I was looking over my shoulder for XW all the time in fears of going back out 'alone'. I was always alone and never let anyone get REALLY, REALLY close. I think it was (appropriately) my wedding day that I finally let XW in completely, and well, look where that ended up.

Anyway, yeah. I'm looking forward to Saturday all though I'm fairly certain nothing will become of it, but hey, that's cool, means no pressure.

[mishka422]

I tell you when I was ready, seeing women really helped me to realize what it was like to actually be appreciated and respected again

That would certainly be interesting (of course men for me...not women!!). Personally, I can't remember what it was like to be appreciated let alone respected. Something to hope for in the future....who knows!

Ham for TURKEY DAY Dylan???? Say it ain't so! My family has both though and we have turkey, ham, and roast beef for Christmas. There are around 40 of us for dinner so we have to extend our meat choices.

[dday101798]

Oh, never fret, big bird will be on the table too, but not my job to do, just carve for now. Funny thing is, is that my "father" used to be the carver, and everyone complained of how lousy he was at it after taking over when his father passed. Thus, I really wanted nothing to with it, but, for 3 years running now, I've been nominated.

Since we're on the the subject of food - I have to get a recipe for apple pie, I have an entire bag of apples that were donated to the cause. Other than basic deserts I've been learning to do with the boys, I am not a baker! Any suggestions?

[antlers]

Since we're on the the subject of food - I have to get a recipe for apple pie, I have an entire bag of apples that were donated to the cause. Other than basic deserts I've been learning to do with the boys, I am not a baker! Any suggestions?

Easy Apple Crunch

6 cups sliced apples, peeled or not
1 cup sifted all-purpose flour
1 cup sugar
1 teaspoon baking powder
1/2 teaspoon salt
1 egg
1/3 cup melted butter
1/2 teaspoon ground cinnamon

Preparation:
Butter an 8-inch square baking dish. Arrange sliced apples in the prepared baking dish.
In a bowl, combine flour, sugar, baking powder, salt, and egg; blend well. Sprinkle mixture over apples. Drizzle melted butter evenly over crumb mixture. Sprinkle with cinnamon. Bake at 350° for 30 to 40 minute. Serve warm, with ice cream or whipped topping.

Your kiddos will love it, and you will too.


Happy Thanksgiving!