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Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W JAK58 #1780810 06/09/09 07:59 PM
Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,628 Ohio H Hope4us Member
Hope4us Member H Joined: Feb 2008 Posts: 1,628 Ohio	JAK, My W does the ignoring thing sometimes too and then if I don't react or walk away or call her on it, she changes, just like it seems your H did. I think sometimes we just don't see what we're doing and after we walk away or call them on it, they realize it. Probably something totally unrelated to you that put him in a mood and you were just lucky enough to be there when he decided to vent. Water off a ducks back..... Congrats on the Town Clerk deal. Hope4us Me - 49, W 49 S22 & S18 Dday 9/4/07 W claims NC 4/7/08 8/29/09 - Divorce Busted. Lots to work through, but we're going to make it.

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W Hope4us #1780923 06/10/09 12:08 AM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 Member
Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	Gee, Town Clerk, would be job #3. When is the election? Keep us posted!

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W Matilda2 #1781097 06/10/09 11:40 AM
Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666 Y Yoyowife Member
Yoyowife Member Y Joined: Mar 2007 Posts: 5,666	Vote for JAK, she's got your back!!!! You go girl! Life's challenges are not supposed to paralyze you, they're supposed to help you discover who you are. -- Bernice Johnson Reagon

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W Yoyowife #1781109 06/10/09 12:36 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Hope, I think you are right he knows that he shouldn't treat me that way and after I remove myself h e realizes and changes. Mat, Job two would end if I got job three! I can't be everywhere. Im'e starting to get confused here and need toground myself. Yoyo, Yea for the vote!! Thanks for the support friends! JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W JAK58 #1781122 06/10/09 01:09 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Call me...Im going to try and call you. me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W fightingirish #1781658 06/11/09 12:54 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	So, last night I get home from work and there is a small bouquet of flowers! I think he knows that he is being an ass half the time and he is doing things like this so that I won't leave until he snaps out of his chit. JAK You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W JAK58 #1782790 06/13/09 11:45 AM
Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665 M Matilda2 Member
Matilda2 Member M Joined: Oct 2005 Posts: 3,665	Flowers are always a treat.....and a hopeful sign of things to come!

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W Matilda2 #1783948 06/16/09 12:28 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	Yes they are Mat. Hopefull, who knows but I'll except the gesture as something nice H wanted to do at that moment. I appreciate that he did that. He cycles like crazy. I just want to learn to live each day for me, be true to myself and maybe then H can follow my lead. Work in progress. J You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W JAK58 #1784863 06/17/09 06:21 PM
Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA F fightingirish Member
fightingirish Member F Joined: Jun 2007 Posts: 2,866 USA	Still can't believe the flowers... cycles are crazy aren't they!! I know what you are talking about. H has been too nice today, and I think its because of my depressive state. Other than that, have you heard anything from OW? me: 37 H: 44 Married for 18 years this june S7 S3 porn issues, and much more... since 7/06 Happiness can be found, even in the darkest of times, if one only remembers to turn on the light.

Re: Looking for TAL re. W,L, and W fightingirish #1784885 06/17/09 06:43 PM
Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y. J JAK58 OP Member
OP JAK58 Member J Joined: Dec 2006 Posts: 2,131 Upstate,N.Y.	We e-mail each other occasionally H hasn't tried to talk to her since our Friend was in the hospital, wich is good. I think it scares them when we are too quiet as they wonder if we are contempating our next move without them. H is cycling like crazy!!! I have noticed. J You don't get to choose how you're going to die. Or when, you can only decide how you're going to live now. ~Joan Baez

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