so I just read the book and dont know where to start. I have been doing the being nice, nonconfrontational, being helpful etc. We have been together 12 years and have an 8 year old daughter. Its been two weeks since he said we are thru and it is over one week since he has moved out. Yesterday he said he misses me but its still over. Doesnt want to try, He said since I am seemingly happy and all that he knows he is right we are better off apart. Is my plan backfiring. I think he is going thru something, this is all so not him, dont know if it is a midlife crisis or what but he keeps contradicting himself but thinks he is happier living at his friends house sleeping on an air mattress. So what do I do. I love him so much and dont want this at all. Its kiling me. Someone please help what is the best thing I can do. Thanks
