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#1681811 - 12/27/08 11:11 PM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
S.T. _I Made It! Offline
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hey! belated Merry Christmas!!!

don't have time to read, but I am thinking of you, and I hope you were able to have a peaceful and fun Christmas.

I'll be back on tomorrow and I'll check on ya first thing! \:\)

(((SMW)))

I'm glad your cape is back on btw. ;\)
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M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."

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#1681970 - 12/28/08 06:04 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: S.T. _I Made It!]
smartcookie Offline
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Registered: 05/04/08
Posts: 2978
I have been thinking for a while, & wanted to tell you......

I'm sooooooooooo glad you changed your name.

I look forward to the day when you name yourself as a person. Not his wife, not your kids mom, but you, L.

Happy New Year. I hope this one is your best ever.

Hugs
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4 kids; 18, 15, 14, & 10
I was never meant to be a doormat. It took me years of therapy to become assertive enough to stop his abuse.

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#1682599 - 12/29/08 04:27 PM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: S.T. _I Made It!]
Tomato Offline
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Loc: Northeast
Originally Posted By: S.T. _I Made It!
I'm glad your cape is back on btw. ;\)


Hey what'd I miss. What cape ?? WHere'd she get a cape?? I want one of them. I need one of them. As long as it doesn't have any 'skins references on it.

Hi Sis


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#1682975 - 12/30/08 02:37 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
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Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 4045
Loc: Virginia
Thanks for all of the wonderful Christmas wishes.

The kids and I had a great day. I got the one thing I needed more than anything else for Christmas--it was peaceful. I enjoyed my visit with the inlaws. As usual, they spoiled the heck out of the kids. My FIL and I made plans for him to come help me put up shelves in the garage.

My fav cousin came in on Friday night/Saturday morning. We stayed up until 4:30am talking. She has asked me and D17 to be part of her wedding in June. Time to get serious about the diet now! She was worried that I might not want to be in it, but i assured her I was fine and that I was hopeful that DH would be there, too. She hopes so, as she and he were always thick as thieves.


Saturday was my mom's annual holiday party. I had a lot of fun and got to meet D17's new boyfriend. I like him so much more than the loser we put up with all summer long.

Nothing exciting going on otherwise. It is nice for a change.

SMW
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through
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#1683081 - 12/30/08 06:01 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
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Sis...

Calmness in the port is a good thing. Glad xmas went well for you and the kids. New boyfriend huh...for some reason new boyfriends don't seem to like me much not sure why HA!

You sound good have been reading along and watching you are finding your groove and are dealing better with things IMO...

Will check in later...

Bro

PS...

Happy Holidays!
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#1683195 - 12/30/08 01:50 PM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Racefan]
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Registered: 04/02/08
Posts: 4045
Loc: Virginia
{{{{{{BRO}}}}}

I have missed you! Was going to call over the holidays, but was not sure if it was a good idea. Hope all is going well and you and your family had a good one!

I feel like I am handling things better and give all the Glory to God.

Yeah, and the new boyfriend thinks I am awesome!

Sis
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T16/M14
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S4/08
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Love never gives up, never loses faith, is always hopeful, and endures through
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#1683813 - 12/31/08 03:59 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
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Loc: Tulsa
oh, you sound so great SMW!! I'm so happy. \:\)

sounds great that d17 has a nice bf, and great that you had a peaceful xmas.

now, you need to get dressed up and have a fun new years!
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Me 33 H 34 S9 S3
M 6 yrs (2gether 11 yrs)
EA/PA 1/2006
DB 5/2006
H wants D 6/2006
H wants ME 8/2006
H "said" PA/EA over 8/2006
H erased OW off phone! 2/2007

"It is far better 2 choose humility & change oneself, than 2 wait in vain trying 2 chang someone else."

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#1683820 - 12/31/08 04:08 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: S.T. _I Made It!]
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Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 4058
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You are settling into some hum-drumness. Sounds just right for you for a change of pace.

With me it is as topsy turvy as ever.

I am rather pissed now. I was enraged a short bit ago and pretty much threw tantrum of sorts in the airplane before completing my last flight. Someone is choosing to duck all my calls. I try to take the 'high road'. Which is good until you come to a stretch with a curve and there is no guard rail to keep you from plummetting a couple hundred feet onto my head.

Bottom line is she has no 'real' R with Christ. So I will just be spinning in circles to try to get her to understand anything. \:\(
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#1683821 - 12/31/08 04:10 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Tomato]
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Registered: 01/03/08
Posts: 4058
Loc: Northeast
btw ..while I may have heard of the expression

"thick as thieves" I can not quite figure what you really meant by it?


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#1684219 - 12/31/08 05:27 PM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Tomato]
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Registered: 12/12/07
Posts: 9696
Loc: GA
(((((((((((Laura))))))))))))))

Happy New Year!!!!!!

Prayers for you and your family to have the blessings of God's grace and mercy. Peace to you sweetie!
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