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Breakaway, I don't think it will do anyone any good to try to "imagine" the whys and wherefores of the things that H has done and said. If BG wants her marriage restored it will never happen by harboring anger and bitterness. Only God's total forgiveness will work.
Well, I wasn't really saying I wanted her to spend time imagining it. You took that over literally. My point was just that it is easy for everyone to pile a lot of blame on the OW, in a way making excuses for what H is doing, when he created that sitch.
In no way would I recommend harboring anger or bitterness.
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I've been snowed in for 4 days! That's no biggie to you mid-westerners, but to us in the Pacific Northwest, it's unheard of!! We have the "3 flake rule" here, ya' know? Three flakes and the schools close!!
Hope you are doing OK! ((((((((((BIG HUGS))))))))))
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