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#1675522 - 12/17/08 06:17 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: BobbiJo]
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You are still amazing. Of course you still love your H, he is your H after all. Those that don't understand that never make it to this board. We understand. I hope you have an incredible Christmas with your darling children.
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#1675547 - 12/17/08 07:33 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: gForce]
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SMV....i think you're great! just wanted to say that...

and BTW.....try being a bills fan before you start getting mad at the 'skins. didya see that play? didya????? LOL
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#1675583 - 12/17/08 08:46 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Neilh23]
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This was sent to one of the other spouses from her husband, also stationed aboard DH's ship. I love it!
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Quote of the day:

Whatever you give a woman, she will make greater.
If you give her a house, she'll give you a home.
If you give her groceries, she'll give you a meal.
If you give her a smile, she'll give you her heart.
If you give her sperm, she'll give you a baby.
She multiplies and enlarges what is given to her.
So, if you give her any crap, be ready to receive a ton of sh!t.

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Now I will go read what everyone posted to me!

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#1675585 - 12/17/08 08:48 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: sandycay]
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Originally Posted By: sandycay
SMW,

All I can say is you are beautiful.


Sandy--

You brought tears to my eyes when I read this, mostly cause I know you are talking about my spirit, not what I look like on the outside.

SMW
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#1675587 - 12/17/08 08:53 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: BobbiJo]
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Originally Posted By: BobbiJo
I love the faith that you have, I am working on mine. It was actually my strongest gift when I did a spiritual gifts inventory about 7 years ago....it's just been dented a little lately..

I love what you said about still having joy when you think of your H. So many people don't get how I can still love him after all the bad. I guess b/c I choose to focus on the good...

You are a wonderful model for us all


BobbiJo--

Your faith may be getting a bit dinged up, but I believe, in my heart, that God is working mightily in Dan, hence all of his wavering and struggling. When people question how I can love DH, I tell them that they are looking at him with the world's eyes. I have chosen to look at him like God sees him. I sometimes lose that focus and get frustrated with my DH and his actions, but when I give it back in prayer, God opens my eyes again. Trust in our Father, he will always reveal the truth.

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#1675594 - 12/17/08 09:09 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: gForce]
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Originally Posted By: gForce
You are still amazing. Of course you still love your H, he is your H after all. Those that don't understand that never make it to this board. We understand. I hope you have an incredible Christmas with your darling children.


Peter--

You are such an inspiration to me! You also always show up just when I need you! Everytime I peek in on your sitch, my heart overflows with joy for you, your wife, and your family. I hope you have a wonderful holiday, you so deserve it! I am looking forward to celebrating a Christmas with my children that keeps the focus right where it needs to be--firmly on the gift that God so graciously gave us--His Son, Jesus Christ.

"For God so loved the World that He gave His only begotten Son, so that whoever believes in Him will have eternal life." John 3:16

Such a simple verse, one that is the first that every child learns to memorize in Sunday School. A simple verse that is the nutshell of who we are in Christ. I recently read, and am re-reading, Max Lucado's book, 3:16 and now am only beginning to see the true depth of the love the Lord has for us, his children. I HIGHLY recommend this book to everyone.

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#1675595 - 12/17/08 09:10 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Neilh23]
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Originally Posted By: Neilh23
SMV....i think you're great! just wanted to say that...
Thank you--you are pretty cool, too!

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and BTW.....try being a bills fan before you start getting mad at the 'skins. didya see that play? didya????? LOL
Uhm, no, no thank you. Being a Bills fan would be worse than sticking hot pokers in my eyes--much like it must be for you to watch them play! ;\)

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#1675598 - 12/17/08 09:20 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
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what's going on down here on the ground?
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#1675599 - 12/17/08 09:21 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: Tomato]
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very graphic on that bills fan analogy there L.

LMAO
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#1675605 - 12/17/08 09:27 AM Re: A Sailor's Christmas [Re: StrgMarvelousWmn]
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Originally Posted By: Strong Mil. Wife
When people question how I can love DH, I tell them that they are looking at him with the world's eyes. I have chosen to look at him like God sees him.


You can not re-iterate this point enough. Certainly for me anyway. Not like I don't know this. But putting it into practice is something that can now receive the real focus that it is due. Thanks so much Sis. I needed to hear that.

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