I Always Admired the Cut of his Jib

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Hey SMW...

Glad to see your email was received well. I really couldn't tell by his response that he would for SURE let you pick him up, but obviously it worked.

I would be careful next time though, that email could have been taken as pressure and if he really didn't want to come home for some reason, he would have felt guilty.

To me, the email was great for someone who is in a M that is not having problems. However, it was a tad on the desperate side since you guys ARE having problems. HOWEVER, if he seemed to have a good time, and him turning towards you in the car was really really good, so perhaps he did not take the email in the way I mentioned.

That was why I kept my email to him as light as I did. He could have told me he had to work and I would have no way of knowing if he told the truth. He looked genuinely pleased to see us there, which was nice. I think him asking to stay here, resulting in him spending as much time with me as he is going to is a good step.

oh, the license plate story is wonderful! I'm so glad you were able to "see" God's message for you! Sometimes I need to just slow down and wait for his message to me too.

Yes, the licensse plate was a major deal and I am still excited about the magnitude of God's grace. He truly is an Awesome God.

SMW

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

I'm also rooting for you and will be anxious to hear how things go. I know that if anyone can do/say the right things, it's you. Your faith has already been an inspiration to me in the short time I've been around!

Amy M

What a sweet thing to say! Thank you!

SMW

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

(((((((Wishing you well, SMW)))))))

Thanks again for all your support!

{{{{{GF}}}}}

Not a problem. I need to go read the latest on your sitch, but I am hoping that something has been resolved.

SMW

[Racefan]

SMW...

HOOORRRAAAYYY, for you. Good job on keeping it light and easy. Listening to H and validating his work is a good thing on you making ones work feel important is a good PMA for them.

I am so happy that he sought you out and would converse with you, good job on making it comfy for him to do that.

I find it interesting that H kept emphasizing the promotion and that if you hear first to let him know, it shows he knows you stand behind him with what he is doing...

H listening to you about contacting when he gets to the parents house is really cool showed he respected your concern for him...

All in all sounds like a nice family night good on you for being you and allowing H to get into that comfort zone without pressure...

I am proud of your accomplishments for the day, good things to go to sleep on...

Stay your course and let the almighty show you the path...

HUGS

Brian

[NikB]

(((SMW)))

So happy for you!!

Sounding good.

Maybe time to change out the "S" in SMW eh?

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Nik--

I am thinking about taking the sad out, if only for the fact that I am making my own happiness. It does nto rely on my H and his actions, although I am HAPPIER when we are tegether. Since I am happy most days, I am firing on all cylinders when we are interacting well. We will see, but maybe soon.

SMW

[NikB]

Sounds good SMW. 6 out of 8 is still good..

(or in military terms it's probably like 100 out of 120 cylinders or something right??)

Make your own happiness, that's THE most important.

(((SMW)))

[Virtually_Handsome]

She can keep the "S", just change what it stands for....

I can thing of a few!

[gForce]

You're doing great, and it sounds like things are going well. Keep it up!

[StrgMarvelousWmn]

Alright, while I am sitting here waiting for the selection board results to post, playing cards, and doing laundry, I am opening the floor to suggestions for what to change my "S" to.

Keep it clean!

SMW