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I know I am late, but the mail was great for me too. Not TOO much, balanced, perfect... I didn't mind the "we love you either..."
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Originally Posted By: Sara
I like the letter. Especially the part where you say that you admire a quality in him. It sounds very genuine to me.


Thanks Sara. Glad to see you pop in, I do not see you very often!

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Originally Posted By: Neilh23
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i think it looks good, but i agree with STImadeit about the "hon" does your sitch call for it? I mean, is he still having the EA? IDK....that's just my 2 cents. Other than that, it's good.


Yes, as far as I know--or at least as of three weeks ago, he was still spending large chunks of time on the phone with her. See what I posted to ST about the "hon". I think it will be okay, but I do appreciate the feedback.

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Originally Posted By: sgctxok
It's very good. I want some coffee and coffee cake.

NOW!


Yes, call him hon.


That's something that 'worked' for me. And it reminds you to keep your tone sweet, and endearing. Keep it up.

If it turned sarcastic, no...but you would never. \:\)


Good job.


Thanks SG, I think we are good to go, then after everyone's feedback. I am going to attach the kids' notes and send it off here in a bit.

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Originally Posted By: dry_heat
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I like it. I think you doi a good job at finding the balance you are looking for.


Thanks for dropping in and giving me your opinion Jeff. The ladies are all so helpful, but it is nice to get some testosterone-based feedback. I appreciate you and Neiltaking the time.

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Originally Posted By: Kalni
I know I am late, but the mail was great for me too. Not TOO much, balanced, perfect... I didn't mind the "we love you either..."
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Hey Hon!! I know, now that you know I call my H that, it does not seem as special, huh? It is, honest! I do not call everyone that, just those who mean a lot to me.

Alright, so now that I have a good round of approvals, I am going to finish it up and send it. H starts his shift at 7pm and I want to make sure it is in his inbox, just to see how fast he responds.

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Hi SMW...

Just my 2 cents I like the letter, good amount of PMA for him with you reaffirming he is deservant of the promotion, I also like the part of 'we love you' test the waters that is the only way you will find direction. I wouldn't change a thing, stay your course darlin you are doing great!!!

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Originally Posted By: Racefan
Hi SMW...

Just my 2 cents I like the letter, good amount of PMA for him with you reaffirming he is deservant of the promotion, I also like the part of 'we love you' test the waters that is the only way you will find direction. I wouldn't change a thing, stay your course darlin you are doing great!!!

Brian


Thanks Brian!

Well, it is sent, and I HONESTLY forgot to take the "we love you" before I sent it. UGH! Well, I got support for it and against it, so we will play it out and see what happens.

I need to go finish dinner. I will be in tonight!

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Originally Posted By: Racefan
Hi SMW...

Just my 2 cents I like the letter, good amount of PMA for him with you reaffirming he is deservant of the promotion, I also like the part of 'we love you' test the waters that is the only way you will find direction. I wouldn't change a thing, stay your course darlin you are doing great!!!

Brian


Thanks Brian!

Well, it is sent, and I HONESTLY forgot to take the "we love you" before I sent it. UGH! Well, I got support for it and against it, so we will play it out and see what happens.

I need to go finish dinner. I will be in tonight!

SMW



SMW...

I don't think it will cause any damage, kinda like me telling the W ILY the other night it may do damage it may not. Take a step back and observe see what his response is and then you will have the 'direction' as to how to proceed. You're doing okay!!

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