At a new restaurant that is opening up which is a chain but it is not a fast food place like McD's or BK.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
He is doing food prep, making shakes, and whatever they have him do.
This place is interesting in that he gets minimum wage paychecks and each night, he receives 2% of the sales for the duration of the time he works. Not bad for a kid.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yeah, from what I understand they make a lot of money. One of the servers was saying she easily makes $200 on any given weekend night just on tips!
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Mishka I know exactly what you mean about Christmas. Although my h left just one month before and he was here for the day on that first christmas we were apart he spent the whole day talking to someone in the toilet on his mobile. He kept saying it was his friend from the gym (who I have never met and probably doesn't eixst) but I later found out it was OW. They had met just a week before and she was calling him from Czech Republic where her family still live.
Last year we went away for Christmas and I would like to do that every year but the children don't want to repeat the experience. I'm really torn b/c Christmas day in particular is really hard for me. This year will be worse b/c my S15 has moved in with H so he probably won't be here either.
SF I'm sorry you are having a down week.
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
Well if you read on my thread you can tell I'm not having a very good day either.
I'm sorry your H is distant to you this week but at least he is moving forward. I know you have ups & downs like we all do but you have been so strong & faithful, you are an inspiration!!
Thank you for being here for us as you know we are here for you also!!
It is more frustrating then down but i will get thru it. Since we seem to be able to talk about most everything, it is a little difficult but i will survive.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
