I've noticed some mood swings....one day H is happy and talkative...the next we don't hear from him or he is agitated... He's never mean to me but I can tell when he is tired or frustrated.....
maybe he's not getting enough *** from OW
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
Sounds like a nice ending to the day. My h comes over today while I work. Haven't seen him or heard from him since Wed, didn't expect to though. If I did that would mean he was unpredictable. Don't know what to expect.
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I've noticed some mood swings....one day H is happy and talkative...the next we don't hear from him or he is agitated... He's never mean to me but I can tell when he is tired or frustrated.....
maybe he's not getting enough *** from OW
Treese:
This is all part of MLC. I am sure you are getting accustomed to those behaviors by now.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Sounds like a nice ending to the day. My h comes over today while I work. Haven't seen him or heard from him since Wed, didn't expect to though. If I did that would mean he was unpredictable. Don't know what to expect.
That is why we all should have zero expectations. Hopefully, your day will be a nice one.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Yes SF....I'm really learning how to deal with him....I used to feel so anxious and walk on eggshells but now what can I do....so I TRY to do my best...sometimes I fail but the majority of the time I can speak to him normally....sometimes I forget he's gone.....but he reminds me quickly.....
Treese
H 49 M 45 D 23, D17, S12 M 25 T 31 01/07 OW H at my door w/proof Bomb ILYBINILWY 06/07 Sep 01/08 headed for the greener grass, Mar08.B#2H has child who is 9 11/08 pos.paternity
He told me he has been having a stomach problem that happens everyday now. I asked him if he gets if more at one time over another and he said no, it just starts during the day.
We did have this talk about illness and cancer and how it seems so many are dying young as a result.
I am not going to push him to have it checked as he will have to make that decision but I do believe God works in ways to bring these MLCers to their knees and do what is right.
Anyone remember how Bob (from Charlyne Cares.....) was struck with illness after illness?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Hi Steelers, I am happy that you had a nice day with H, and that you feel better. (((HUGS)))
Thanks, TL!! I am not on the computer much this weekend and I am reading a little at a time so if you don't see me posting much, it is not because I am ignoring you and others but I will check in much later.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Well, H was here and I again asked him about his stomach ailments.
He said it hits him in the middle of the day and says he thinks it is nerves more than anything.
Then I kept thinking: What does he have to be nervous about??? I am not pressuring him but God is most likely working on him, and who knows if OW is not pressuring him? I think they just co-exist but once again, I am praying about all of this.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
