Is my H's cycling which seems to be happening faster and faster a positive thing?
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Steelers, Whilst I envy the fact that you see your H so often I also agree with Snodderly that it would be too stressful to have him home right now. When I saw my husband last week when D13 went off on her school trip to France I realised I coulnd't remember the last time I saw him before this. I certainly can't remember the last time he spoke to me in a nice way (or of late even spoke to me at all!). This is a horrible feeling but I have to admit that mentally for me it is better than when he was ringing everyday to bully me into agreeing to the D.
Take care
Me 43 XH 45 M 2.7.88 Divorce 7.10.09 Kids D20,S17 & D15
I really don't want him here too soon, it is just that other situations I am dealing with make him being here somewhat easier to deal with.
I just feel so badly for those whose spouses cannot say a kind word to them.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Since you know alot about MLC, do you think my H is going through some kind of a crisis or he is just simply done with me because he has an unforgiving, blaming and/or stubborn spirit?
I believe cycling can be identified as the constant mood changes.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Steelers, Or could it also be switching between distancing and getting close to the spouse?
From what I have read it is about their mood swings.
Someone correct me if I am wrong.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
Steelers how is your weekend so far? Hope you are enjoying it with h.
Hi, Glam:
So far so good.
H came over, and was on the quiet side. It was pretty much just he and I sitting outside and it was nice. Just small talk.
This time when he left, he actually asked me to walk him out to the car. Normally, I have just gone ahead and walked him out but this time he requested it.
I swear, it was like being a teenager again. We must've been out there kissing for ten minutes.
I will see him tomorrow as well.
The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
