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All is okay. Have not heard from H tonight but I talked to him a lot today.
I think he needs some serious sleep so he can function at work tomorrow.
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
What I have learned, I have mostly learned here. I did not find this board until roughly six months after I found out about the A. If it was not for my faith and things I learned here, I probably would not be here.
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I got it and just responded. Thank you. You are very pretty and what a handsome little boy you have!!
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
I'm like you, I didn't find this board until the end of Feb. & my D was almost complete. I've learned a lot here too & especially with the help of you & so many others.
I really think God is trying to send my H a message. Seems each day, there is something that is happening over here that really needs his attention. Most things I can deal with but some of these things, he really needed to be involved in.
Today, he admitted that each day, seems more and more things come up and there is no end to it.
I just listened.
I think God's message has been:
Go home to your family, be the head of the household as things need immediate attention before something of a serious nature occurs.
You would think the light bulb would go off in his head but it hasn't.
I am not getting upset about it as I have been praying and I think that is what has kept me going. Right now I have so many things to deal with that really have nothing to do with H but these matters do need his attention.
Okay, I am done talking.
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19
You talk away! You need to vent & here is the best place. I think your H is about to realize that he does need to be there. It's just going to take him some time. You are doing great!!!!
thanks for the encouragement. i have a wonderful headache today so i may not be on much but i am thinking of all of you.
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The Bomb: 08/05 H moves out: 06/2006 H moves back: 01/07 & Out again: 01/07 H moves back: 03/08 & Out again: 04/08 H moves back: 05/09 & Out again: 07/09 Divorced 08-12 Kids: 22, 20, 19